person never success in love and maybe there's so much pain in the past to make thing better in future
2006-09-11 19:41:56 · 14 answers · asked by kit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't listen to the other 2 it would be almost imposible to find love on the net. and i don't think the love of god (no matter how great) will satisfy you. but you need to be positive. if you walk around with the attitude your'e a failure you wont attractanybody. be positive and happy about yourself and things should start to turn around.
2006-09-11 19:47:38 · answer #1 · answered by Scott G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course broken heart people can find real love. You have to leave the past behind and look to the future in order to find real love. Love is very hard to find these days because people do not take relationships seriously. You have to weed out the bad and only deal with someone you feel may lead to a relationship. Don't get caught up with playing silly games. If you are serious and the other party is not do not waste your time. Let them know that Trix are for kids and they can purchase their toys at Toys R U them move on! After you weed out all of the bad you will have the confidence when real love finally comes.
2006-09-12 02:55:24 · answer #2 · answered by Patress 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure they can. They should use all their bad experiences collectively to help them make better choices in the future. They should not be so quick to rush into love and always keep their eyes and ears open. Most of all they should not let the past keep them from being objective and hinder themselves from true happiness.
Take your time and have fun. Get to know people first .
2006-09-12 02:53:21 · answer #3 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been in your shoes where i have dated the wrong guys at the wrong time, had my heart broken one too many times but i had to go on. just because you do not succeed once or twice in love does not mean that you will meet the right guy at the right time. i know that being heart broken means a lot of pain since i ahve been there and back again but you have to forget and let go of the past because if you do not it will affect the future.think of the future bein positive in times of heart ache as oppossed to being pessimistic.
2006-09-12 02:51:00 · answer #4 · answered by icycrissy27blue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To find a real love out there, you have to find the real love inside yourself first. Able to be in love is a fortunate thing, but possession can become hurt. If he cannot be with you, let him go, but let love remain in you. By then, you will find the inner real love of yourself, and soon you will find the real love out there.
2006-09-12 03:14:29 · answer #5 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi ....
I'm not gonna be operah or Dr.phill ..... but its abvious my friend that you didn't deal with the pain you had in the past in order to have a future you should deal with this pain. how is that gonna happened????
first, you should be in a very quite place "the where you can find peace" just to have the time to think where was your mistakes and your ex. mistakes..
seconed, make peace with your self I mean let go.. forgive them...I'm not asking you to be a friend to them its up to you but forgive them because when we hold grudge inside our heart its too heavy to bare so just let it go...
third, be close to your friends during this you need to be arround them they will help you ...
forth, don't get involve with any one untill you are clear with your past first..
finally, if you did what I said to you above I'm sure you'll be ready to involve with someone maybe not at the first time but eventually you'll find someone who desserve you, dear friend. just be you..
you'll probly wonder why should I listen to her but don't worry my friend you are not the first one I give advise to and work later on ... coz I've been there ..., done that......
2006-09-12 04:22:10 · answer #6 · answered by Dark angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possibly that a person find love in a future. just take it slow and live life as it comes.
it help to me and took a long time. now i am marriage and love her very much.
if you have any questions or need to know something just im me
2006-09-12 02:51:45 · answer #7 · answered by jwtaz1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, forgive those that have hurt you first and forgive yourself for being in the situation. Then learn from what happened and use it as a stepping stone to go on and enjoy life.
2006-09-12 18:59:33 · answer #8 · answered by G♥♥G♥♥ღ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course! Heartbreaks are lessons we should learn from. Sometimes it paves the way to the true love we are seeking for. Just have faith and it will come.
2006-09-12 03:02:30 · answer #9 · answered by Meeya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did found a real love after being hurtbroken for many, many long years. One day, it will happen to you too. You will see.
2006-09-12 02:49:57 · answer #10 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋