i live in key west she is in new york i am thinking of braking up long term and my job whith here plans and school just dont seem to be working.
help
girls you should be the most helpfull
2006-09-11 19:26:43 · 18 answers · asked by scubagod 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i work with the tourist my occupation make me movie around alot i go where where thay go. that is the world. for my job
2006-09-11 20:07:20 · update #1
No matter how you say it, it will hurt her. You can be gentle she will hurt. Or you can be insensitive, she will still hurt. It doesn’t matter how you do it boss, she will hurt at the end of the day.
All I can say is you know your woman better than we do. You know what makes her kick. So work out a way that will make things easier. Lie to her if you have to. You can even tell her you got some sexual transmitted diseases that you got when cheating. Say something that that will make her feel better.
These guys are our sisters and we should be able to protect them from any kind of harm. If you can’t do that now, how will you ever be able to do it?
2006-09-11 20:05:35 · answer #1 · answered by tomwaterboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her you should not do that, what ever the reason is !!!!
BUT if you don't you should tell her, you should be honest with her.
you know what you don't deserve her!!!!
just because you are in a different areas YOU WANT TO BRACK UP ????
The Princess
2006-09-12 02:47:36 · answer #2 · answered by Cinderella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no easy way to break up. There will be anger, tears, threats. Be kind enough-and man enough-to allow her to vent her feelings. Be honest--if there are other reasons, tell her. Most people can handle the truth--even if it hurts. It is what we do not know that hurts us the worst.
2006-09-12 02:32:36 · answer #3 · answered by Shika'swoman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you dont want to be hit in the stomache or in the balls i sugjest a date and on the date give her a gift or two and then at the end tell her your feelings and the reasons why your relationship cant work that is the way to let it off easy. if she is right for you she will understand that it cant work.
2006-09-12 02:32:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys in the city are savvy. She's probably dating some other guys already. Just be honest and try not to be an as*hole about it.
2006-09-12 02:30:21 · answer #5 · answered by chitown.nate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you don't think its working out. The distance does put a strain on the relationship as it is.
2006-09-12 02:31:53 · answer #6 · answered by Dawn K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will tell you this much, man tell her camly and be nice about it. Do not be cruel nor harsh nor cold about it. Tell he in a soft manner and let her down easy. Girls appriciate a guy with honesty and with compassion.
2006-09-12 02:29:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that u do love her and care about her but long distance relationships arent for yo and that u think she should move on with someone who would be able to go out with her...someone who is closer in distance
2006-09-12 02:30:35 · answer #8 · answered by redhead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call and just tell her what you wrote here. If she begssssssssss to stay together. Just say NO.
Don't do it in email. Call her. But, please don't give in to pressure and expect her to be sad. There is no way to make it easier. Just do it. Good luck
2006-09-12 02:29:34 · answer #9 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her...you never know she might be feeling the same way. You don't need help from us what you need is spell check. Ha..ha..ha.
2006-09-12 02:33:24 · answer #10 · answered by dod civi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋