I went to a small rural school and I just never had a relationship with a girl. I wasn't ugly or a jerk, but I never seemed to attract anyone. I'm a kind of intellectual type, not obsessed with intellect but it's important to me. I couldn't find any girls who were interested in that at all.
2006-09-11 19:19:11 · 21 answers · asked by Justin 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm very attractive and I went through school without having a boyfriend.It wasn't important to me.Just because everyone else is with someone doesn't mean you have to.Education is more important,you have all the time in the world.There is nothing wrong with you at all.Plus when you do meet someone she will have to have a brain instead of sawdust up there.
2006-09-11 19:23:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Go to a big college. There's a lot more variety there. You're at the perfect age to start looking for a relationship whether its your first or 100th relationship. Don't worry, there's somebody for everyone out there. The key is to have confidence! If you have low self-confidence read some books on self-confidence. A good book that relates the confindence in the business and relationship issues is "The Magic of Thinking Big." I forgot the author name, but its a good confidence booster. Good luck!
2006-09-11 19:32:26 · answer #2 · answered by abjr_86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, not normal...alot of people have relationships during highschool, but smart....yes...you avoided alot of heartbreaks and times of depression. G/F arent that big of a deal in highschool cause people change so much during highschool and the couple might fall apart and go seperate directions. College is a great place and time to find somebody...your schedual is different, your older, more things are open for dating. Highschool was just a day care for teens, no more, no less. Your fine, just dont be the 40 year virgin...
2006-09-11 19:29:52 · answer #3 · answered by 96.7 KCAL ROCKS!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not so abnormal at all. That happens to a lot of high school guys. But hey, don't live in the past. If you're ready and want a relationship with a girl, make it happen now.
2006-09-11 19:24:10 · answer #4 · answered by danaluana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same thing happened to me. But the reason was that I have asperger's syndrome. Some girls were interested in me, but I was too shy to do anything. I'm still like that. It sucks.
Your case sounds different. Don't worry, most college girls are responsible young women, though there are no shortage of drunk girls at college.
2006-09-11 19:24:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I went all through HS and did not date. I thought I was a freak but I found out that LOTS of people don't date in HS. After I went to college, I started dating. Don't worry, your time will come and you will be more mature than you would have been in HS. You probably saved yourself a lot of heartbreak.
2006-09-11 19:22:55 · answer #6 · answered by Emme 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is very normal. I didn't date in highschool either for similar reasons. I am now 26 and doing just fine. I have no problems with the opposite sex.
2006-09-11 19:26:00 · answer #7 · answered by sami_d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. especially since you go to a small school where there aren't that many people and a less chance of meeting someone that you'd like a lot.
2006-09-11 19:23:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,normal. Concentrate on what you are doing. Girl friend will come sooner than later.
2006-09-11 19:23:07 · answer #9 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know several people who went through high school without a girfirend.
2006-09-11 19:21:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋