k i know i been on this over and over again but i know its over with me and my gf but we cryed and kiss and even did it yesterday and both said still love each other and miss each other. i ask her to to lanuch in college and she said she cant do it tuesday but wesday was i wrong to ask that q-tion? sould i leave her alone latly she been out to the club even on skool days i think she might need time?
2006-09-11 19:17:25 · 12 answers · asked by soo_sick_of_lovesongs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Run away now....don't walk, run. You are just putting yourself out there for heartbreak. If you keep going back and forth you are never going to experience any closure and you will just continue to drag out the pain. You'll never really get back together, but in the meantime you won't be able to get on with your life.
2006-09-11 19:21:37 · answer #1 · answered by lokimadhouse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really hard breaking up with someone you love, but I think it makes it harder when you are seeing the person, it's like when you're trying to quit cigarettes, you shouldn't be hanging around them etc... Maybe you both need space, maybe do a 60 day she-tox, no contact 4 60 days (if possible). Stop torturing yourself, when you see & talk to the person you love, it just brings all the hurt back.
Try & keep yourself busy, hang out with your friends, do all the things & hobies you used to do before that you didnt have time for anymore.Good luck.
2006-09-12 02:25:38 · answer #2 · answered by idk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm kind of in this situation myself. We just aren't in college. I've been dating my girlfriend for two years next month, and we broke up a few days ago. We are trying to work things out. Just sit down and talk to each other. Make sure that ya'll aren't going to make mistakes ya'll will regret. Maybe she does need time. Just don't let a good thing get away from you if you love her. Don't do anything that would jeopardize your relationship if you want to stay with her.
2006-09-12 02:24:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit your crying. There's nothing worse then a sooky sooky la la boy. Your girl probably needs to see some strengh in you, even if you do miss each other, your not wrong to asking her out for lunch but your the man. So be one. hold your head high, Shell want you more if she sees you doing well without her. No one wants what they know is waiting for them.
2006-09-12 02:42:05 · answer #4 · answered by kathycracksit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man , I understand the feeling. I am in the same boat. Totally, I understand where you are coming from. I think it is just a habit and well you also want to know and reasure yourself (just bc you want to be with the person) that they are not with someone else when they are not around you. For example. my ex (which we still hug, kiss and have sex, and he tells me he loves me) goes out with friends i am like jumping off the walls bc we are not together and I know he is allowed to date so I feel scared. But it is simple yes man it is ok to ask just but it is natural for you to want to know since you are still a part of her life.
2006-09-12 02:27:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your pic looks as sad as you sound! Cheer up! I think you should just forget her. I know you still care for her. It's not good to still communicate with her because you are just hurting yourself over and over. You need to get out and have your fun like she does! Don't let her cheat you from meeting other girls! Have fun, life is to short to waste on something that is over.
2006-09-12 02:35:37 · answer #6 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be desperate, just let her know you were thinking about her. dont get to soft, but dont get too hard that she is turned off to you. Just tell her that you miss being with her and you need her...make her feel important. but dont say this all at once. Make her think about you, make her want to know how your feeling. If you just say simple quick things, its kinda like taunts, but you need to tell her you need her, but at the right moment, and you will know. This is what i think should be done, dont do it unless you agree. Good luck
2006-09-12 02:22:26 · answer #7 · answered by 96.7 KCAL ROCKS!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey u...u know my outlook on this give her time let her think things through
2006-09-12 02:20:08 · answer #8 · answered by Theresa J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spell check. it is the best advice i can give you. then i can understand your question hon.
2006-09-12 02:19:23 · answer #9 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES I THINK YOU ARE IN A MESS . AND YOU NEED TO FOR GET HER .
2006-09-12 02:22:05 · answer #10 · answered by tia c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋