I have been involved with my friend for about 3 months now and I am in love with him. I have know him for a year and we hang out all the time and we are both managmous he is 32 and I am 21 and we both work in the same building. He says were not in a relationship when he is sober but when he is drunk he tells me he loves me and i am his girlfriend. I have meet all his family and friends and he has met most of mine. I don't know what to do? Should I stay or go? On to my second question I'm 2 months late on my period and have been getting sick for the last month and have had to go to the bathroom like every 15 minutes for the last month also. My symptoms are nausea vomiting and my back hurts all the time. I also have been eating strange things like pickles and ranch and have been eating constanly. what does that mean? any advice would be appericated?
2006-09-11 18:31:27 · 11 answers · asked by lovelyaquariusfairy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I told him I was pregant and he told me he would help support it.
2006-09-13 16:32:07 · update #1
You need to sit with him and tell him he is confusing you with his double talk, love you or friendship. Maybe you should video him with your cell phone when he is drinking and sharing his love for you and play back when he is sober.
Now for the illness, 2 months and those symptoms doesn't mean you are pregnant, a little too son for cravings and back aches. You should see your doctor, you may have a virus or parasite.
2006-09-11 18:39:57 · answer #1 · answered by Baseball inquisitive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.) Ask him to make up his mind. You can either BE his girlfriend or just a friend. But if he should choose the second he would have to look for someone else to have sex with, because you do it with your bf but not with just a friend.
Find out what he wants and why. There must be a reason for him to act the way he does.
2.) In about 8 month there might be a little screamer in your arms. This screamer will call you mommy once he/she is old enough to do so.
Okay, that's just a guess, but it sounds likely. Go and see a doctor. And do this before you come to question&answer #1 for it might be related to your ... guy.
If you are pregnant you might reconsidre the aproach on question #1 because with a baby growing inside you you should be a bit more careful with this guy who might become daddy.
If you love him and are sure that he is the dad, give him the chance to grow into this situation before you start the confronting scenario.
Final advise. If you are not pregnant do some serious thinking about contraseption. I have three kids and I can tell you that just one is enough to change your life.
2006-09-11 18:41:30 · answer #2 · answered by ak2005ok 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe you're 21 years old and you're not picking up on all these signals.....you sound like a really sweet girl so I'd like to help you if I can.First of all get yourself a home pregnancy test. I've been around enough pregnant women to know morning sickness when I see it ( in this case, read it)Next, that "friend"?Girl come-on, if he only tells you he cares for you when he's drunk......you're 21 years old, that guy's a zero. Tell him to his face,that your radar has been down and you let things slide way too long, now you're back on track and the first thing you're going to do is to tell you not to call me again, don't try to see me. Now I want to bridge the pregnant thing........if you are,how do you feel about abortion. You could be in a bad way, pregnant with this deadbeat's child, you're too young.....well you're not, but you at least want someone you care about to share children with. I hope you get through this.....take care....................
2006-09-11 18:56:11 · answer #3 · answered by veteranpainter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that if you had sex with him, you are now pregnat with his child. If I am right, then you should tell him all about it so that he will know that he should support you all the way and that if ever he is ready to have a family of his own, he should marry you to give name to your child.
He should bea real man to stand for what is right concerning you and what he did to you. I don't think that you like the idea of him leavingyou hanging on confusion as to what to do with your possible pregnancy. After all, he should have not had sex with you if he is not yet capable to support you if ever you get pregnant.
If he disowns the child, ask him to have a test at the right time for him to believe that hei s the fatyher of your child. If still he does not want to claim it as his own, then I believe that he will not be a good father to your kid so you may opt not asking him to give your child his name and stay away from him with the hope that someday, the right man who will bemost wlling to love yor child as his real child will come your way and give you the happiness that you truly deserve. Good luck.
2006-09-11 18:52:04 · answer #4 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well youre pregnant. Thats the second answer. As to the first, I think you should talk to him about all of this. If he is in denial about your relationship then maybe he doesnt want one. Maybe he expects you two to remain friends with benefits. Definately talk to him. And be totally honest, things will only get worse if you lie or tell half truths. Good luck, and dont give up.
Remember, everyday is a new day, but only if you embrace it as one.
2006-09-11 18:34:31 · answer #5 · answered by Jess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely in case you not have any activity in Boy a million, then the terrific ingredient to do may be to interrupt up with him correct. it is not honest to him in case you nevertheless lead him on. Now, as for Boy 2, try seeing him greater. i understand which you will stay a strategies aside yet in keeping with risk if issues paintings with you adult males, one in all you should circulate. i understand that feels like a huge stretch yet you not at all understand. If not something quite occurs with Boy 2 via fact that is all too confusing, nevertheless talk with him yet circulate on. there are fairly some fish interior the sea and once you're high quality sufficient then there'll quite be a guy obtainable for you. Oh, and yet another ingredient, in keeping with risk you don't understand how plenty you like Boy a million considering which you have been questioning plenty approximately Boy 2. in keeping with risk provide him a splash longer and take a examine out to hit upon all the solid issues in him. draw close out with him and spot in case you will possibly quite omit him plenty in case you broke up. you do not intend to screw up and circulate away him for a guy that not something's certain to ensue with. solid success!
2016-10-14 22:05:18 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really doesn't sound all that confusing....good luck being a single parent
not trying to sound harsh, but if he won't accept you as his significant other while sober, is he going to only accept the baby when he's drunk, too?
2006-09-11 18:40:22 · answer #7 · answered by mjboog2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off.. your pregnant....second..your not in a relationship with him. You are a convience for him. and for some reason when he's drunk he acknowledges you.
you are young. deserve better. and now you have a baby on the way. do youthink he is going to be around for the child? talk to him. you need to tell him. that will tell you pretty quick if your his girl friend or not. i wish you luck
2006-09-11 18:35:41 · answer #8 · answered by chelle7usa 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A baby is on it's way... Congradulations.....
Be honest with yourself. You will know the answer if you will take your feelings aside and think constructively. YOu will know.
Why would he only acknowledge you when drunk that's a sign so don't turn a blind eye to the rest.
2006-09-11 18:40:59 · answer #9 · answered by Zsa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer to question #1: Take what he says when he's sober to be the truth, & act accordingly.
Answer to question #2: Get yourself a home pregnancy test, & when it tests positive, pray that this dumbass isn't the father.
2006-09-11 18:36:51 · answer #10 · answered by No More 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋