Okay I'm 13 an one of my best friends named Hannah is dating one of my other best friends Wilby he is really sweet, nice, funny, an just a great guy to be around... I like him, alot an I feel really bad because me an Hannah are really close. Hannah an Wilby have been dating for about 3 months but 3 weeks ago she dumped him for a complete stranger she found off msn an it like broke his heart an thats when I started liking him an I felt bad for him because they both wanted each other back so for a week I worked my *** off to get them back together because they were both happy but now I like him more than ever... Am I a horrible friend to Hannah? But I just don't wanna see him hurt again an I want Hannah to be happy to so am I a bad friend an should I tell her I like him?
2006-09-11 16:56:05 · 14 answers · asked by Tayler 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aw, you're so sweet. It sounds to me like you deserve the guy more than your friend does. The guy would probably be better of with you because you appreciate him, and didn't dump him for some random guy. BTW, so far you're not a horrible friend to Hannah, you've sacrificed yourself for the both of them. It must hurt to watch your best friend be with your biggest crush. And don't tell her you like him while they are still dating, it can even be dangerous after they are finished dating. If you let her know that you like her boyfriend that will drive a silent rift between the two of you. At age 13, I say keep the friend. Everything changes so quickly at that age. Don't sell out your friend. Focus on other crushes at this time, or else you'll just feel heartache the whole time those two are dating.
2006-09-11 17:06:50 · answer #1 · answered by blindly_invisible 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are as close of friends as you say you are, then she probably already knows. There are signs that show it. Just remember that you are only 13 and the chances are slim to none that it is going to last forever. Your lust for him may change over their relationship, but just remember to be there for him because women are shady and will do anything to stab you in the back in the long run. She will use that knowledge against you so just keep it quiet. (I am an older person who has been through a simular situation)
2006-09-12 00:01:12 · answer #2 · answered by binkisoto79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are actually not a bad friend at all, let them try to get back together but tell the boy how u feel, also let ur friend hannah know but tell her that ur stepping out, if things dont work out, at least u will have shown u r honest and that will give points in your favor, he will see the nice girl u r, hopefully he will notice it, and thats what we have to do for the ones we love, let them go if they come back they are totally yours...good luck!!!
2006-09-12 00:00:00 · answer #3 · answered by hephaistion_hek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you expected that it'd be a permanent relationship? I hope not!
This is the time to experiment and date different people. Find out what you like, but be kind!
Marriage shouldn't happen until 25 at least, or 30.
2006-09-12 00:10:50 · answer #4 · answered by Freesumpin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea you should tell her about your feelings for Wilby. I mean, it wouldn't make sense if she gets mad at you for that. And be there for Wilby.
2006-09-12 00:01:16 · answer #5 · answered by energens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, your a good friend, you were being selfless. just remember that at this point in your life, love and relationships are really for learning. its things like this that shape you as an individual and will help you out down the road in future relationships
2006-09-11 23:59:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't date in your circle of friends date outside.
2006-09-11 23:59:03 · answer #7 · answered by medevilqueen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. Tell her.
Lose a friend, gain a frind
You're too young for it to be serious anyway.
2006-09-11 23:59:08 · answer #8 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 13..you both will get over it!! it's not the end of the world..you guys have alot to learn.
2006-09-11 23:58:44 · answer #9 · answered by bunty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u realy want to make ur friend missirible and make her get at till u r 20
2006-09-11 23:59:19 · answer #10 · answered by amynata m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋