2006-09-11 16:52:58 · 28 answers · asked by Julia 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Because you are insulting them like a bigot.
2006-09-11 16:55:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've spent a few minutes looking thru your questions and all the following are what people might have in mind whenever they see your question pop up. (One thing, though, if they don't like you, I wonder why do they keep answering...)
1. Because you keep coming back.
2. Because you bring nothing but piss and vinegar to the party.
3. Because your questions comes from a sad, disturbed mind.
4. Because you need to go to whatever that support group you're supposed to attend. You seriously need it.
5. Because you need to take some medicine. Did you miss your daily dose?
6. Because you need to take a breather. Even if you hate Christianity so, go out for a while. Your questions/rant are getting old and redundant. People want something new, even if it's negative and dense.
7. Your wages for paying internet bills are better off used for paying your therapy sessions.
8. Have some sex life. It helps you get that divine experience you yearn so much, even if you're an atheist.
I'm in no way against your way of thinking, because that's really your business and I really like your attitude, just that people don't really like the way you present yourself. Doesn't matter you worship or not, if you lead a good life, it's fine to me. I really hope all the above helps.
2006-09-12 00:04:31 · answer #2 · answered by jarod_jared 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Julia:
I agree with tfaith46. You are obviously hurting very much and have a desire or need for others to hurt just as much as you. The problem with Chrisitians is, they are capable of forgiving you for your words and actions. Somehow you are unable to accept that and truly start over.
If something did happen within the church environment that is the root of all this anger and pain, take a step back and look at the circumstances in which it happened. Ask yourself what age where you? Could you have changed anything at that age?
The first thing you really need to do is to forgive yourself, forgive the person who hurt you and offer it all up to God. Ask for guidance in dealling with this obstacle (or in the event of many hurtful situations) ask God to help you. Ask God to forgive the offender(s). Ask God to forgive you for the feelings you have and ask Him to help you be a better person.
If you are seriously interested in seeking help for whatever the problem is, let me know. I ask all God fearing people here to take a moment of your time and pray for Julia.
Julia, I've been robbed, stabbed, raped, lied to, cheated, treated like a piece of property and ignored. It took a long time for me to realize that I didn't ask to be raped, but it happened by someone who decided they needed something I wasn't willing to give. That person needed help.
Realize that not everything is your fault and that you cannot control the actions of others. You can influence them by setting a good example but you can never control another person wholely.
If you need help, ask us here and we can guide you. That doesn't mean converting - but many of us would be honored to help you on to a better, happier life.
If you are afraid, ask for help in private. I am sure many of us would respond. I would respond.
"knock and the door will open" I am one of many who are waiting on the other side of the door.
lizzard
2006-09-14 19:38:25 · answer #3 · answered by Lizzard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because u r not like them, therefore:
u r different,
different seems to automatically mean scarey to most christians,
Therefore: scarey = go away u free thinking person u, we fear u because u r not trapped by our conformist ways, u r not held in check to an unnatural state of being by unreasonable n archaic rules like they r, so their tiny lil brains can't predict ur actions n u scare them. Imagine what u cop from the small minded christians (not alll r, but unfortunately the small minded ones tend to be the loudest too) for being Pagan? i don't go around berating them for making a personal choice of religion but when i get unprovoked preaching n abuse i give it right back. I endured 6 years of catholic high school, i don't put up with their **** any more!
2006-09-12 00:05:47 · answer #4 · answered by Belle 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because the last thing ANYONE really wants to hear is the word "Jesus" 8 times in every conversation.
Even the normal religous people dont want to be smothered by it.
2006-09-12 00:18:19 · answer #5 · answered by cognitively_dislocated 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they tell u to go away cos u are an obnoxious rude cow. Don't talk bullshit. I'd tell u to go away if u were spouting the kind of crap u are now!
2006-09-12 19:13:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hang in there, Julia baby. Don't go away. Why did you spell Christians with a dollar sign?
2006-09-12 00:02:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have evidently been hurt by someone who claims to be a christian but is not really so, because that is not the way of Jesus.
i am so sorry that you are hurting
T.
2006-09-14 16:49:53 · answer #8 · answered by tfaith46 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are we bothering you or are you bothering us?We can all get along without anyone having to go away.
2006-09-11 23:56:36 · answer #9 · answered by stpolycarp77 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He who is without sin, Cast the first stone.
2006-09-12 01:26:29 · answer #10 · answered by jrealitytv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋