I work two jobs. One is 16 hrs a week and the other is 19-21(3 days a week) hrs a week. I am a bartender at one plus I am in school during the day. I am working everyday & school 3 times a week, however, the 16 hr a day is only 4 hrs a day for 4 days. Do you think that is alot to accept with regards to a relationship?? Do you think that is too much for a woman to accept? I am usually off on Friday nights so that would be a good date night?? Just wondering. Thank ladies!!!
2006-09-11 16:51:19 · 6 answers · asked by Chef 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know it would depend on the women's schedule but in just hearing my schedule, would that be an obstacle?????
2006-09-11 16:53:24 · update #1
Honestly, yes it would be an obstacle, but a good girl would be willing to work past obstacles, otherwise she wouldn't even care to take the time to try, and that's not what you want in a girl. I once dated a guy who worked parttime and was in college fulltime and his schedule was very hectic. But we always made time for each other and when he had breaks from classes, we spent alot of time together to "make up" for lost time. Having a girlfriend will definately add more to your plate, but the RIGHT girl will be willing to work around it. Good luck : )
2006-09-11 17:02:38 · answer #1 · answered by Jenn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me that you really need to work rather than have a girlfriend. You do what's more important first. I, as a woman, would percieve it to be mature on your part. What does it matter if a woman would accept your schedule or not. If this is the way she meets you, then she should not expect you (or demand) to change. Just focus on your job. Women, well, there a lot out there...that may come later.
2006-09-12 00:01:50 · answer #2 · answered by SheDevil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree. You have goals and responsibilities and that's desirable in a man. Personally, I don't want a guy that has nothing to do but hang all over me and call to see what I'm doing every 5 seconds...lol As long as you make time to see each other and you make those little moments count then I think a girl would accept your schedule and time constraints.
2006-09-12 00:10:19 · answer #3 · answered by justjerra_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too much to accept?! Heck no!! You work two jobs and go to school? That, to me, says you are dedicated, responsible, hard working and in no way lazy! All desirable traits in a man. Besides, no matter how many hours you work and/or go to school, as long as you make time for her and make her feel special it'll be just fine.
2006-09-11 23:58:22 · answer #4 · answered by matty.. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's fine. You know when you're free so there wouldn't be a problem asking her out another time.
2006-09-11 23:56:56 · answer #5 · answered by energens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that should be fine. i think thats really respectable! go get em tiger!
2006-09-11 23:53:37 · answer #6 · answered by tessie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋