She was a good friend, then one day asked me to try to experiment with her. We had passionate lesbian sex that went unfinnished. She lived with her boyfriend, soon to be fiance so he wouldn't let us mess around anymore even though it never felt complete but we both fantasize about it But \she continuously goes behind her now husband's back and talks dirty to me wanting to mess around once again. He knows what is happening and has become prtoective. but we talk everyday for hours while he is at work. But the second he calls, she hangs up with me. To me it seems like she isn't in love with her husband if she still craves the attention from me. I don't know what to do. We really want to mess around again, but if we do he'll divorce her. She already has two kids with him. But she keeps talking dirty and i don't know how to react. Is it wrong of me to keep this relationship going and what am i suppose to say when she talks dirty and wants to have lesbian sex?
2006-09-11 16:46:31 · 8 answers · asked by Tori 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whether the sex is lesbian or not is not the issue in my opinion. She is involved with someone else and until she resolves that relationship I think you should stay away from her. What would you do if she were a man instead???
2006-09-11 16:53:49 · answer #1 · answered by thrill88 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her it can't happen. It's better to go without it then to have her betray her husband. Just get out of the relationship. If she truly no longer loves him, they will probably divorce anyway. If she does love him, then you did them both a kindness and did not cause them to split. Even if she doesn't love him and does do things like this behind his back, at least you can take comfort in that you are not at fault and you can save yourself a guilty conscience.
2006-09-11 23:52:40 · answer #2 · answered by haha10488 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you serious??? I have NEVER heard of ANY man telling his wife/girlfriend no to making out with another woman. If he doesn't want her to do it, and he knows that she is still calling you, he would be upset and leave her anyway because she is sort of still cheating on him in a way.
2006-09-11 23:58:46 · answer #3 · answered by ami mena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat it like phone sex,when you hang up it's over.Don't break up her home just cause your horny.Is that being a true friend? I think not.
2006-09-11 23:52:53 · answer #4 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are torning someone 's marriage. this was like she cheating on her husband. if you can please stop it. it dosen do any good to her and you. she just looking for new fun maybe because her marriage is a littel bit boring. try to avoid this again. if you both be friends, its ok.
2006-09-11 23:53:56 · answer #5 · answered by aeeyo1314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her shes married.
2006-09-11 23:51:03 · answer #6 · answered by thesunnshynne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u think it's wrong
2006-09-11 23:50:44 · answer #7 · answered by amynata m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it babe.
2006-09-11 23:52:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋