And please do not include religion. I am a christian and am well aware of the reasons why not to presented in the faith. I am looking for the opinions and views and positives and negatives on the subject other than "its a sin". Remember, this is SAFE SEX I am asking about here.
2006-09-11 16:42:43 · 28 answers · asked by haha10488 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, I am not looking for advice here, I am quite able and intelligent enough to make my own decisions. I am merely curious about what your own views are.
2006-09-11 17:07:00 · update #1
well im a christian too. but the reason im holding out has nothing to do with the fact i am christian. the reason im holding out is cause i want to keep it for the special person only. i guess its cause i believe in soul mates. thats all. and also... i think its gunna make my honeymoon even beter
2006-09-11 16:45:16 · answer #1 · answered by tessie 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well I met the perfect guy, good looking nice and did whatever I wanted I never had sex with him AND I kept thinking he is too good to be true. Finally a few months into the relationship we did it and we were safe but he had a a 2 inch penis. After we did it I broke up with him. I am so glad we did not marry!!!! So you should sample the merchandise to see what you are getting, which in my case was almost nothing.
2006-09-11 23:50:18 · answer #2 · answered by LETICIA P 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
its fine but you do need to realize that things can go wrong condom can break and get diseases and you can get pregnant i would just think of it this way if you can not afford a baby on your own you are not ready for sex and make sure you both get tested before you do anything becasue accidents do happen. They do say the percentages go down after you open the condoms. Even if you are on birthcontrol you still can get pregnant. So keep in mind sex makes babies and babies are not cheap what soever and it is very hard to raise one. You do need to think of the dieseases that are out there even if you are doing safe sex mistakes can happen.
2006-09-11 23:48:58 · answer #3 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You claim to be a "Christian"?
Well God gave you free will, but don't claim Him when you spit in his face. Remember, everything that happened to Christ? the lashing, the beating, the torture, the nailing to the cross? Well every time you sin you do that to him. Good job. Don't you feel better about yourself now?
There is no such thing as safe sex dude. You are playing the roulette game with your health, and soul.
You don't want to hear about religion. I guess you just closed the door on God. Good one dude.
Remember, it's your soul you should be thinking about here.
My obligation to remind you about your Christianity otherwise go ahead and walk into the arms of Satan, because that is what you are doing.
You got what you didn't want, because God has agents everywhere to guide you. Now turn back away from this evil thought and reflect on Christs suffering on the cross.
2006-09-11 23:49:47 · answer #4 · answered by Martin M 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
For me that is a tricky question. The best thing you can do is be honest with your partner and don't be afraid to ask questions. I have been intimate with a person before and have asked them if they have any STD's. I would also recommend regular check up's if you are sexually active with multiple partners. Also, wear a condom, that might be your best protection. Hopefully you can be in a monogamous relationship and you won't have to worry as much about STD's.
2006-09-11 23:49:30 · answer #5 · answered by ms. fix-it 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally, I think sex is an important part of marriage (not the most, but a close second)....there are people who are just not "compatible" in the bedroom....it's better to find out before you get married that there are/are not going to be problems in that area....problems/stress/tension in the bedroom WILL flow into other areas of the relationship
2006-09-11 23:46:03 · answer #6 · answered by mjboog2 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
actually i dont care what time it happens once it happens and it's safe sex am done and over it f u r my bf u can still be but w/e it sex it safe and even from the feelings from base i and 2 it sure sounds like fun...yeah yeah i know there r a lot of consequences but its safe and its sex am a christian too
2006-09-11 23:51:21 · answer #7 · answered by Make Love Not War! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
pros dude is there is more connection with the person you are gonna do it with and make sure you use condoms with lubrication trojan ends best brand. make sure she wants to and talk abotu it first don't just jump right into it. and if you are way under 18 years of age don't even think about it... cons she may not want to she may regret it and it does change everything.. no one night stands if you do this one person it created commitment you may not be ready for. you can't go around sleeping with other girls once you go and have sex with one it is very very hurtful ok. watch out for her feelings to.make sure you mean it when you do it and not just do it cause you want to. and if you love eachother truely then you will mean it.
2006-09-11 23:48:13 · answer #8 · answered by Da Q 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't want to be a ho so I choose to wait for the right one because I don't want to tell him someday that I have been with like 20 or 40 different people. What is left to be special for him?
2006-09-11 23:48:31 · answer #9 · answered by LNZ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
pre-marital sex? If you can fight the urge then fight it... If you can't, which is most likely to be for us guys, then do it.... If you want to do it then why would you listen to what they say.... Just do what you want then pay the consequences... and since your telling that it's safe then go... Enjoy life...
2006-09-11 23:51:59 · answer #10 · answered by paoloudarbe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋