theres a girl at work. shes a cheerful gal, and talks to people. she came back in the dishroom and talked to me and such. i kinda like her....
i just dont know the things to start conversation with her :(. And I think its unprofessional to date a waitress when im a cook/dishwasher. But shes so darn cute and id love to take her out for a date or something. helpppppp
2006-09-11 16:37:14 · 17 answers · asked by awall71688 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh and when she came back to wash the pepper shakers, i snagged em and washed em and said ill do it no prob. so that was a plus i guess ;)
2006-09-11 16:38:56 · update #1
Hehe this story brought up memories. I'm 26 now and when I was 16 and a hostess at a Sports Bar/Restaurant I dated one of the cooks. In fact we went to our company Christmas party together was out first date. He got a bit jealous because our drunk at the time boss wouldn't stop touching me (can we sexual harassment)! Anyways....we dated for 11 months and it was great. He ultimately left the restaurant before we broke up so not sure how that would have been as far as awkwardness.
However we did both attend school at a technical college. We were both in Culinary, but he was in the level ahead of me. I remember it being pretty awkward when we would run into each other......we would try and avoid each other. We didn't have an ugly breakup, but he was who I felt I first loved. Then I grew up a bit and realized it was puppy love is all. Everyone needs that though it's part of growing up. Years later we got in touch, went on a trip together even as friends with another set of friends of mine and remained friends for quite sometime. I often felt he wanted to rekindle our relationship, but I didn't feel the same. This was 3 1/2 - 4 years after our breakup about? Now we don't speak much as he moved.
Anyways, just thought I would share my story and it didn't turn out so badly, but each situation IS different. I guess you will have to weigh out the good with the bad. Meaning how much is she worth it to you to try and pursue a relationship with her? Do you think you will be able to handle working with her if you do date and things don't work out? If you go on one or two dates with her and you guys just don't have chemistry I highly doubt this will effect your working environment that much. It's if you date for quite sometime that things can get a bit weird. A lot to will depend on the maturity level of both of you in what you are or aren't able to handle.
I wish you all the best of luck. I have said it before and I will say it again.....and probably again some other time!
Nothing Ventured, Nothing Gained!!
By the way sorry for the Novel =) Good Luck to you!
2006-09-11 16:54:02 · answer #1 · answered by Pam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing to feel so scary like that honey.She's a cheerful gal, that's really good. Just wait untill you finish your job, wait for her, say "hi", and ask her out for a date.
I think she'll accept your invitation hon.
She's worth a try, right?
Be brave, man!
;-)
2006-09-11 16:43:02 · answer #2 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just talk. :) Try asking something like, "What's up?" to break the ice. Maybe try, "Did you have a good weekend?". Of course, that one only works on Monday. ;)
2006-09-11 16:41:51 · answer #3 · answered by New mommy 2010! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
check if the management has a problem with you dating people at work. ultimately you should give it a try if you think it's worth it though.
2006-09-11 16:40:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her out and ask her if she has a boyfriend then ask her to go the starbucks with you or something.
2006-09-11 16:45:31 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IN MY OPINION, U SHOULD ONLY WANT TO BE HER FRIEND. BECAUSE TRYING TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE U WROK WITH IS NOT A GOOD IDEA. BUT JUST ASK HER OUT AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS. TAKE IT SLOW!!!!!
2006-09-11 16:40:32 · answer #6 · answered by Sharicka H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just keep smiling and chit chatting with her . maybe she thinks your cute and you will see an opening and ask her out. why not?
2006-09-11 16:41:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it.. the worst she will say is no.. and then it might even become really really akward.. im kidding. she should take it as a compliment!
2006-09-11 16:40:21 · answer #8 · answered by tessie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it has to come from you. you need to be yourself you know. first get over your shyness that keeps you from talking to her. when thats done you'll know how to start a convo with her.
2006-09-11 16:40:40 · answer #9 · answered by energens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.... you can ask her out for coffee and see whether both of you have chemistry.
2006-09-11 16:40:15 · answer #10 · answered by Redberry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋