i had a boyfriend who was my first and true love for two years after i moved to another country he broke up with me and we're friends right now...i still love him but not like before. since i broke up with him i met a boy on the internet who's moving to the city i live...he's so sweet and it seems like i know him for years...he loves me but he says when we see each other maybe things change...i know he's right but when u love someone how come feelings change after seeing each other( we have exchanged some pix so it's not about appearance) ....after months...my ex called me and he wants me back badly ....he wants to propose ...i'm not sure about this new guy but i don't wanna get hurt again ...
2006-09-11 16:28:39 · 13 answers · asked by /\/ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what does ur heart tell u to do....u need to do what u feel will be right....did the ex hit u or upset u at any time? do u really want to go through a person that u broke up with...i mean that could be like going through ur first true love if u get back together with ur ex.....but if you want to get together with the guy on the internet then thats fine but its called lying sweetheart....get back to me at joshuav38801@yahoo.com and ill get some pro help on this one honey.
2006-09-11 16:38:55 · answer #1 · answered by joshuav38801 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should hold off on the marriage and experience with the new guy. You never know, you might like what you get. Yes things change but not always for the worst. I say give it a chance. Besides, you said you did not have the same feelings for the old boyfriend.
2006-09-11 23:33:58 · answer #2 · answered by Just_Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do some soul searching and dont make any decisions you will regret later on..time is on your side espically when your happiness is at risk..this internet love thing is not to be trusted, why would things change after you all met? you both know what the other looks like?? it may be that he isnt being honest with you and is trying to get out of meeting you befor he moves there. be careful and good luck.
2006-09-11 23:45:02 · answer #3 · answered by countryrose24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to sit yourself down and think things threw. I know that true love hurts when it is broken. I also know that it helps to have a rebound, which is what the other boy sounds like to me. You dont wanna be hurt, but you may be hurting another in the process. Think about your actions. And also think about what your first love did to you. Do you really wanna go threw that all over again. It sounds like he is wanting you back outta revenge for something. Dont let him play with your emotions again.
2006-09-11 23:34:43 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you x left you. All of a sudden from different countries he wants to marry you? I think of how that saying goes, you don't know what you got until it's gone. I still love my first love even though I am happily married now, but that was in the past and now you need to worry about the future.
2006-09-11 23:35:14 · answer #5 · answered by binkisoto79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, two is a party, three is a crowd.
You are free until a man goes into your life. When he splits away you became free again. Another man goes into your life. That first man tries to comeback and realize that you are not free.
You going have to tell him you have a boyfriend now.
2006-09-11 23:54:33 · answer #6 · answered by Mattman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you should ignore your ex because he is the one that wants to break up with you so I would start seeing the new guy if I were you.
2006-09-11 23:34:24 · answer #7 · answered by Kevin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always follow your gut when you're confused because that feeling is what feels right to you.. plus it works 99% of the time
2006-09-11 23:38:58 · answer #8 · answered by HMK85 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch some Sex in the City.
2006-09-11 23:35:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only u can decide. do whats in your heart. remember the grass is not always greener on the other side.
2006-09-11 23:31:52 · answer #10 · answered by thesunnshynne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋