A girl at my bf work sent him a message late at night while he was at my house. I read the message and uit contained words like "hunny" and that she wants to know when he's working next. It finished with 'love me xoxo'. My bf sed that shes got a bf. Should I be angry?
2006-09-11 16:25:32 · 22 answers · asked by retro_shine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
shes probably just very friendly
my friend calls people baby within ten minute of meeting them
crzy i kno
2006-09-11 16:31:49 · answer #1 · answered by woot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he show it to you or did you read it on your own? If he showed you the text message, then you have nothing to worry about. If he was interested in her, he wouldn't have shown it to you. If he didn't show you the text message and you just read it on your own, then there's a REASON he didn't show it to you. That doesn't mean that anything has already happened between them, it just means that he is probably CONSIDERING it as a possibility. I wouldn't worry unless that was the case - and if it was, I would start investigating the situation further.
2006-09-11 16:37:48 · answer #2 · answered by sugarlovenugget 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be angry if his response was in line with her message.
If it wasn't it's up to him to get his co-worker in line....he needs to tell her he has a girlfriend and not to send those kinds of messages again.
You can be upset but it's not up to you to fix this....he's a big boy.
2006-09-11 16:30:27 · answer #3 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the girl sended it to the wrong person....
But if he's flirting ask your self why... ofcourse you'll answer it yourself... if your answer is positive or you belive that your doing your best to keep up with his relation then get angry... but if your answer is negative... then try to keep him by doing what he wants... if he want to end your relationship then let him do so... mind you... he'll look for you again.... because most flirting ladies just want to broke a relationship then if theie mission is finished, they will look for another....
2006-09-11 16:33:55 · answer #4 · answered by paoloudarbe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, who are you chosing to be angry at? What good is it going to do to be angry? Why are you letting some silly, stupid girl rent space in your head?
Maybe she is harmless, maybe she is an idiot, maybe she is after your guy. Girls these days say stupid things and don't have a clue what love is - they say it to EVERYBODY to the point where it means very little.
2006-09-11 16:30:05 · answer #5 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be pissed off. Then I would plan to drop something off at his work (like a little gift for him) and be all huggy kissy with him infront of her. So there would be noway she could deny that "she didn't know he had a girlfriend" And just to let her steam about it.
2006-09-11 16:31:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know what kind of guy he is? if yes on the good side pass over it. If no, well my girl, he might give that girl his # so she have all right to text him ---- and -- you have all right to give him a good beating!! he is too bright to accommodate much text without replying that she should not text again because he have a woman already.
2006-09-11 16:34:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would be. :P It's a natural feeling to be angry.
2006-09-11 16:28:07 · answer #8 · answered by New mommy 2010! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be angry for that. Your boyfriend is lying. She probably doesn't have a boyfriend and want to date your boyfriend.
2006-09-11 16:29:16 · answer #9 · answered by Kevin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't see a reason to be angry with him, unless you have reason to believe he encouraged her.
2006-09-11 17:05:07 · answer #10 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happened to my brother's gf she kept getting texts from a friend at her work then my brother found out that he asked her to cheat on my brother so wats my brother do..........................beats the sh*t out of the guy thats what just confront ur bf about it and then confront the girl asked her why
2006-09-11 16:29:59 · answer #11 · answered by teenchatter10 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋