there's a girl in one of my classes and we talk some times but im not sure how to ask her out?

Question

im not sure if she has a boyfreind eather please Dr.Phil or someone help!!

ok its been at least 2 days sence i added this one but heres more

ok so i seen some dude huging on her but when ever we see each we still smile as if we were going out but i havent even asked her out yet so please i need more of your help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

Honestly, this is the very best answer you'll ever get: don't ask her! Seriously, the best relationship comes when you continue to spend time with her, but increase the level of intimacy. Get closer to her, emotionally, and physically.

start off by checking to see if she has a boyfriend. hang out with her and her friends just by doing school activities. ask to sit with her during lunch. get to know her, and eventually, ask if she's on hi5 or myspace. through that, you can find out her email, and find out if she's single by looking at her profile ( http://hi5.com or http://myspace.com ). with email, you can get her phone number.

as you spend time with her, little light touches on her arm, hair, face, neck, leg, and thigh will send sparks flying up her spine and make her body tingle if done right, and this will increase sexual energy. put your arm around her while watching a movie.

Don't even bother complimenting her. That's not original when it's done just to flatter her. do it only if you mean it.

spend more time with her, and get to know her even more. then, if it seems like she's curious as to why you're getting closer, be honest: "You're really special to me."


eventually, after you've sent her signals and gotten her signals enough to know you're ready, ask her what she's doing the coming weekend. eventually, just tell her: "I really think we should watch a movie and then do dinner this weekend, just to get to know each other a little more". make sure you get as close as you can to the way it's worded here.

leave it at that, and see where it goes. get her phone number after, to confirm time, date, and place. after the date, arrange an other. you don't even have to call this a date the first few times (just say "I just thought we should get to know each other more - I think you're a pretty cool girl" - , which is why this is so easy!

whatever you do, NEVER say "will you go out with me", or "will you be my girlfriend". in your case, pick-up lines aren't what you need, since they don't ever sound natural enough to be fair to someone who you've only talked to occasionally. keep it real.

so the key my friend is to become closer to her. closeness is one thing you can count on to make a "you and me" into a 'we'.

is this worth best answer?

Answer 2

If you've talked to her you must feel whether or not she is attracted to you. If there is not a mutual attraction you are sure to be rejected. If she is attracted to you and seems interested you can start by saying we should get together sometime, if she says yeah that would be great, you can ask her what she is doing next weekend. If she says she's free, ask her out on a specific day, ask for her phone number so you can call her on the day before to confirm your date, and that way you'll have her number if you decide to go out on a second date. Good luck!

Answer 3

Hey dude,
First you need to talk to her more, if u see her around say hi and if she recognizes u then thats good. Try talkin to her friends and make them know that ur a cool guy if her friends no u they will talk about you. Ask her if she wants to hang out sometime and then if she says yes ask her if there is a number u can reach her at n if she says no then jus tell her that its ok kuz ull hang out with ur friends this weekend n meet some girls but if she says no kuz shes got a bf then u jus gotta let it go n forget about her boyfriend u need to make her feel attracted to u n if u can do that then u wont need to worry about him

Answer 4

Ask her.

"Hey, Sheila. The newest Zach Braff film 'The Last Kiss' comes out on Friday. Wanna go?"

Answer 5

you should get to know her better and when the subject comes up just ask her if she has a boyfriend maby a couple day later ask her like" hey r u busy this weekend because i was wondering if you wanted to hang out or maby go see a movie together"

Answer 6

look, you gotta be direct. it's the most flattering and efficient route. ask her if she has a bf if you're wondering. if you want to ask her out...do it!!! you say "hey, we should go get some coffee" or "would you like to see a movie sometime" it's simpler than you'd think. if you bomb and she shuts you down (worse case scenario) than oh well, it's not the end of the world, and she's not the one you're looking for.

Answer 7

How come people do not know how to do a simple thing like asking a girl out? It is in the phrase. Here is how to ask a girl out,
"Hi, I like you, would you like to become my girlfriend?"

Answer 8

"Would you like to go for a coffee one day, either before or after class?"

You'll either find out right then if she has a boyfriend or else it'll come up just when you're sipping your coffee causing it to spurt out your nose and mouth all over her blouse. Then she'll be yours forever.

Answer 9

Be unfront, honest and confident.

The key is to ask yourself before hand - what is the worst thing that can happen?

Good luck

Answer 10

Would you like to go out with me... simple as that... take a deep breath, walk up and just ask. What ya got to lose.. if she says NO!!! then she was a loser and not worth your time.. ;)