okay i need help. i recently broke up with a guy b/c i caught them drifting onto other girls if ya know what i mean. well it's been like 6 months and i'm realizing that i still have feelings for him. Do you think that it would be weird, awkward, clingy if i talked to him about it? Or do you have any other suggestions?
2006-09-11 15:58:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go find another guy
2006-09-11 16:00:39 · answer #1 · answered by chuco 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on how the relationship ended, are you still friends or at least on talking terms.
I managed to get back my gf after I had mistreated her, didn't cheat on her, I was just jealous of her spending time with one of her co-workers.
After an emotional heart to heart, we both ended up crying, we were able to find a way to be with each other again and to forget all the animosity that had built up.
Anyway she forgave me and we are back together, but things still aren't like they were before. She seems to be keeping her distance in a sense. Mayber there is some residual anger still there.
2006-09-11 23:10:18 · answer #2 · answered by Kainoa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone else is telling you to leave him alone.
The ONLY reason I would suggest you revist the guy would be to see if maybe his straying was for a preventable reason. If it was just because he's an incorrigible ladies man, then forget him and move on.
2006-09-11 23:03:59 · answer #3 · answered by contrafilms 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sound like you really like him so it is not that crazy to still have feelings for him, But i would not suggest going out with him again, he cheated on you once he'll do it again.
2006-09-11 23:04:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll always have feelings for him. Sometimes we remember the happy times and forget why we're not with that person anymore. Just remember why you broke up and enjoy the memories.
2006-09-11 23:02:42 · answer #5 · answered by Geronimo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
every story or situation hs a beginning, middle and an ending....u r looking for a middle or ending inthis case. u probably got turned on seeing him with her and got jealous or re-interested. this comes from women's fermones. continu being his friend or gf and see what happens. if he doesnt respond cutiebear, email me...ill holla!!
2006-09-11 23:06:11 · answer #6 · answered by Necat T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can talk to him all you want, probably won't change anything.If he was checking out girls while he had a girlfriend, consider yourself lucky to be rid of him.
2006-09-11 23:07:18 · answer #7 · answered by yooper guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you stop dating him because he isn't interesting in being your boyfriend at all since he is flirting with another girl. He is finding someone else.
2006-09-11 23:03:19 · answer #8 · answered by Kevin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find a guy who wants to be with you and only you.they are out there. you dont have time for games.
2006-09-11 23:01:19 · answer #9 · answered by coolman_48413 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want you. And i dont know what you mean by drifting....was he banging other chicks? Get over him because hes probably over you.
2006-09-11 23:03:07 · answer #10 · answered by youngtrump21 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are just lonely. Go find a better man!
2006-09-11 23:01:10 · answer #11 · answered by Just_curious 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋