A priest touched me in a bad way, but then i realized it was a good way. It just overwhelmed, like a Christian is addicted to stupidity. What I'm wondering is, if a man of god turned me out like this, does that mean god wants me to be a whore?
2006-09-11 15:57:40 · 15 answers · asked by Julia 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Julia
I am so sorry for what happened to you. No, it does not mean God wants you to be a whore. God wants you to be happy, filled up and overflowing with happiness.
What this person did was seriously wrong. First of all, you need to confront this person and let them know that what they did was hurtful and cannot be undone. If that person is no longer alive, ask God for forgiveness of this person and you too will need to forgive this person.
Realize that you didn't ask that person to touch you in an unappropriate manner, you didn't want it, need it, or desire it. If you feel you can no longer trust the persons in charge of your church, then go to another church and ask for help. Call and ask to speak to someone about what happened and ask for HELP.
This man is obviously not a man of God but a man in the clothing of the Lamb of God. A deceiver and a theif. This person stole something that you cannot get back. Don't let it ruin the beauty that is still inside.
I understand a little what happened. I was raped 3 weeks before I was to be married. I was a virgin. I never told my husband but our marriage ended because of the terrible secret I carried for 11 years. During this 11 years I hated men, I hated God, I hated the world because of what happened.
With time, good friends and lots and lots of prayer I finally understood that it was not my fault but if I didn't forgive this person and myself, I was going to be miserable the rest of my life and was sick and tired of being a really mean person because of what happened.
If this person is still alive, they need to be reported as a sex offender. You may not have any proof but I would still make the report.
Then, look for those who can guide you and help you start a new life without fear of that awful moment when your life changed.
Free Will is what God gave us. Use your Free Will to change how you will act, react and interact starting now.
2006-09-14 12:49:02 · answer #1 · answered by Lizzard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Julia, with all due respect,,,, if this really happened you should be angry at the person who did this and feel sorry for him because he had been placed in a position of authority and abuse it and the trust that is placed with him. Do you think that God approves of this? of course not. He has to answer for what he has done and did. and he better have a good answer too. Do you generalize everything in life. do you hate white cars if one or more cut you off in traffic? I mean really, if I generalize about Atheist then I would think you are all a bunch of hateful wasteful people. but I try not to because that is not the right way.
so all I am saying is do not generalize and if you are angry address it, if you really are hurt address that but do not generalize a whole group of people for one persons acts.
2006-09-11 17:04:07 · answer #2 · answered by melissa s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHEW. No, because he is still a man. Look at all of the priests that have gotten in trouble (and rightfully so) for the sexual acts they've done. This is a terrible thing he's done, because anytime you want to become intimate with a loving man, your thoughts will go back to this sick pervert. That is ALL that he is.
What it really comes down to is "Do YOU want to become a whore?" Only YOU can answer this question.
2006-09-11 16:03:41 · answer #3 · answered by larryjhere 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Having read your questions and comments for several weeks here now, something tells me you wouldn't know a priest if you tripped over him, much less went to mass somewhere.
Grow up already. And everybody else here......don't you know this is a "joke" question? There was no priest and there was no touching. Stop feeding this insanity.
2006-09-11 16:09:55 · answer #4 · answered by Augustine 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO!!!!!! This man is a perverted S.O.B. He is weak in the flesh. No Man Of GOD would do such a thing. Then I thought of the Old Testament where David , who had many wives and concubines saw a captain's wife taking a bath and decided he needed her .So he sent this officer to the front line where he knew he would be killed ,and he was. All this so KIng David could take his wife, the only thing this man had and therefore David ended up losing all he had. Same thing happened to Soloman. Anyway, report what this Bastar--- did to you so he can't do it to any othr person. Pleae?
2006-09-11 16:09:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The nature of your sexual being is a product of your choices. Your tendancy to take out your aggression on all of the people not represented by the man who hurt you shows your unwillingness to accept the consequences of your actions. What God wants from you and for you is described in the bible. At no point in the bible is sexual promiscuity advised.
2006-09-11 16:02:40 · answer #6 · answered by chrisbomnskie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a Priest touches you in a"bad way" you should report him,unless you are married. He is not of God.
2006-09-11 16:01:38 · answer #7 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Actually it may be Satan wants you to be a whore. God gives His people the ability to discern good and evil. I think you have been deceived by a child of Satan and just did not know.
2006-09-11 16:02:54 · answer #8 · answered by Snaglefritz 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he touched you in a bad way then he isn't a true man of God.
2006-09-11 16:00:00 · answer #9 · answered by Marcy T 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No to all the questions actually that priest sounds like Satan's advocate.tell your parents turn him in.
2006-09-11 16:03:39 · answer #10 · answered by Tinkerbelle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋