Whens the best time to propose to my girlfriend and how do i do it?

Question

weve been together now since january and im madly in love with her. i know she feels the same way about me. im 23 and shes 18, is she too young to understand?

Answer 1

i think that if you really love her and you really think you are both ready then the best time to ask her is at her parents house with her father standing on your right side on bended knee nobody dose that any more her parents will think you a gentlemen and you will have a unique story make sure you have her best friend there and a good ring so she can brag and ask her dad for her hand be romantic

Answer 2

Love has no boundaries my friend. You are both adults and can make that commitment. Statistically, people will tell you that you both are too young to understand love. I personally have been with my future husband since I was 16 and still ha vent fallen out of love with him at the age of 21. If you both truly love each other then you will have no problems.

Now as far as proposing to her. This all depends on what kind of girl she is. Does she like big extravagant things or is she more of a simple girl. Usually the more simple it is the better. You want to do something that shows how much you love and care for her. Try taking her on a weekend getaway. They have really nice theme room hotels. Like at Lake Tahoe they have like a ocean theme room where there is a waterfall and sand and bamboo beds. You can choose from many different themes. They are very romantic and heartfelt. Then you could take her to a spa and get her all "prettied up." Set up an appointment for her to go out with her friends have them all picked up and pay for everything. Then while she is gone you could set up your hotel room. Get rose petals and all that stuff. Then take her lipstick and write your proposal on the bathroom mirror. Something like that would be perfect.

Answer 3

Uh-huh! But it's not only her that's young, bro. You're a little too young to get married too. And its been what, 9 months? Give it some time. It'll come.

But when you do ask her, here's something you could try.

On a pleasant summer evening with a nice breeze, take her up to a hill with a clear view of the city (even a lake with the reflection of the moon could work). Make sure you tune up the CD player in the car to play something like 'More than words' by Extreme or something that's light and has brilliant lyrics to get her into the mood. Then just ask her.

If you want to go a little bit extravagant, you could even try it with fireworks.

Answer 4

Eighteen is very young to get married, maybe you should have a long engagement. How about a proposal in a place that you will be able to visit and relive the memory years from now. For instance a monumental building in your city or a nearby city. Or a beautiful beach at sunset, you can write it in the sand, or leave a note in a huge shell for her to find. Saying...Her name and will you marry me? There are a million ways to propose, but the memories that she remembers for a lifetime are the memories of your face when you look into her eyes and tell her how much you love her and how you want to spend the rest of your life with her. Good luck!

Answer 5

First you need to sit down with your girlfriend and talk to her. You need to make sure she is in love with you and that the both of you are in love with each others and are wanting to spend the rest of your lives together. Once you know what the answer is then you make your surprise plan.

Try a pre-engagement ring, then go for the real thing after you see how she reacts to the pre-engagement. Take her to her favorite restaurant or some place that she enjoys going to. While the two of you are out arrange for both of your family and her family and friends to get together at someone's house or your apartment if you have one. Don't forget the cake!!! that is important too you know. Call home and make sure everyone is there once you know they are there then make up an excuse tell her you need to go home for something and that instead of her waiting for you in the car to come in the house. Make sure someone is looking out to let those know that you are about to come in. When you get in the house they will shout surprise, she will try and figure out what is going on, by then you should have the ring and when she asks you what is going you turn on your knee and ask her to marry you. This is something that will knock her off her feet and into your arms hopefully forever.
Good Luck and hope all goes well with your plans.

Answer 6

Is there a special date that's coming up? like a birthday or an anniversary? If not, propose on a holiday. Also, try to be creative with the presentation of the ring - maybe hide it in a dessert plate at a fancy restaurant. Just be creative and good luck!

Answer 7

Yes, I think both of you are too young to be married. You could, but the success rate is just not very high, at all. If you truly love her, then it's doesn't matter to wait a few year and see where you are. By then, you may asking on how to break up w/ her. j/k

Answer 8

Hi Benton, loved your question. My husband took me 2 our favorite chinese restaurant. He went early in the day 2 put this all 2gether. We were seated in the middle of the place. He did this so all could see. After a really nice dinner out came the fortune cookies. Guess what was inside of mine? Yep, my ring. But 1st here's the clincher...I did not want a cookie. 3 times he told me 2 open it. In exasperation I opened it up & nearly fainted. So 35yrs. later we r still 2gether. More important, still true love.

Answer 9

If you,ve already fucked her then there could neve be any best time to say it. The truth is you probably have already told her thu that or you simply used her which was not love at all.

Good luck

Answer 10

a woman's maturity is not measured by her age. invite her for a short weekend vacation by the beach. have sex under the moonlight then propose to her afterwards. don't forget the diamond ring , of course!