Um, okay this is kinda hard to explain, but I really just want some diff. opinions. This guy that I've like for a years kinda says he likes me, and he seemed to when ever we were alone or around close friends, but he'd never actually said anything or talked about 'us'. So, I write a letter asking him how he feels... and the next time I see him he flat out ignores me. I know I may have sounded a little negative, saying I didn't want to be lead on, or if we weren't going to 'go anywhere' with our relationship, but that I wanted us to always be friends. But he seriously won't talk to me... not even say he doesn't feel the same... what could possibly be going on? How would you feel/react?
(he also knew I liked him from teh beginning, and several times denied he felt the same to other people, even a few days before he toldish me he liked me)
I'm really confused, and I can't seem to get him to talk to me anymore....
2006-09-11 15:40:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Now you know you over-stepped the bounds of good sense. YOU PUT HIM ON THE SPOT. Like asking for a commitment already. Women know earlier than men whether a relationship can go farther - men it takes a while to get comfortable with the idea. But here, you got too far ahead of him and now he's freaked.
Play it cool from now on, let him come to you. It's okay to smile, hug, flirt, etc., but don't put him on the spot.
2006-09-11 15:46:21 · answer #1 · answered by snvffy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey
guys get a little nervous and shy when girls do stuff like that um, jus forget about the letter you wrote n dont bring it up ask him how is day was or somethin u no umm jus dont bring up the letter. Eventually he will talk to you again soo then start over n show him u like him instead of tellin him that way he will try to show you how he feels instead of tellin you.. if that makes any sense?
2006-09-11 22:46:54 · answer #2 · answered by The King 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel. & you were right to tell him you didn't want to be lead on. No offense but that sounds that's wat he's doing. Next time, don't be heart broke about it, just go on & pretend u could care less & flirt with another hottie! If it seems to make him jealous, your good! If not, you need to move on. Cuz that boy was leading you on the whole time if he don't get the least bit jealous. Well, GooD LucK
2006-09-11 22:46:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to go through all that just to see if he likes you and the jerk won't give you a answer,i say leave him in the dust,Who wants a insercure mate.
2006-09-11 22:45:49 · answer #4 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's just playing games w/ you. You sound like a decent girl that needn't concern herself with jerks like him. Move on and find someone who will reciprocate your feelings.
2006-09-11 23:03:26 · answer #5 · answered by lone wolf 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No Sh it! If your letter that you wrote him was as hard to follow as this crap than I wonder why? He never made it past the first sentence. Dripple, blah blah.....Pay more attention in English and quit worrying about him..
2006-09-11 22:43:34 · answer #6 · answered by a4kneekater 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋