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no i think women have no reason to be upset if there husband watch porn. why? because they are watching that on t.v but they have the real thing at home! i am a women and me and my husband love watching porn together we learn allot!

2006-09-11 15:35:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I personally think that any type of pornography is biblically wrong. It breaks at least one commandment. As a wife, you have the right to expect that your husband respects and love you "as Jesus loved the church". Watching pornography is not respectful or loving. It is a problem and an addiction. I wouldn't get mad at him for watching pornography, I would seek help for him. There is a great book to help men overcome obstacles such as this. Its called "Every man's battle" by Stephen Arterburn. You can see it and order it on the Focus on The Family website.

2006-09-11 16:01:46 · answer #2 · answered by tmreiber 2 · 0 0

You are an Individual, if your husband is watching pornography and it upsets you, then yes you have the right. My husband looks at porn, at first I was really hurt, and felt betrayed and like I was ugly, or not enough for him. But, I decided that porn is what it is. I could make a big deal out of it and make it more appealing or accept it. I decided to accept it, it hasn't diminished our love, or lovemaking, sometimes we look at it together. While I am not telling you to accept it, I am telling you talk to your husband about it, and don't be too hard on yourself or him. Good Luck!!

2006-09-11 15:36:55 · answer #3 · answered by Annie Red Head 3 · 0 0

Sure, you have right to do many things. If you want to be mad about porn you can. But for me personally I don't think there is anything wrong with a husband for watching porn. Hell even watch it together. Laugh at some parts, try some out if you want, and even get turned on by it. Besides its just an escape for guys, not like he is going to be out there with other chicks or something. So I'd rather it was porn than some real woman he knew.

2006-09-11 16:13:58 · answer #4 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0 0

OK, I'm not sure if you are a man or woman so in my response I am assuming you are the guy. If I am mistaken I apologize;

Stupid question, but yes, they do have the right to be upset. Especially if the husband hides it from them. Now some couples are a little kinky and like to watch porn together. But hiding it is, in a way, like cheating. It makes a woman feel like she is not good enough for her husband. Why would you want your wife to feel like that?
So if you feel the urge to watch porn, see if maybe your wife will watch with you. It could turn out to be a really interesting night. But, if she is uncomfortable with it, don't watch. and don't hide in another room with the volume turned down low either. That's why you have a wife. So you don't have to to the high school boyish thing and "tickle your pickle" to some lame porn movie.

2006-09-11 15:40:08 · answer #5 · answered by nc_girl2005 4 · 0 0

Yes and no.

Why is he watching the porn?

She needs to know why he feels that he has to watch Tara Moon service every guy in a 200-mile radius.

He needs to know why he believes he has to watch the porn. What is he trying to get from the porn he's not finding in his marriage

You both need to sit down and discuss this as clear-headed adults to resolve the problem.

2006-09-11 15:31:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

My husband watches it and I don't get mad, sometimes I watch it with him, we get ideas, but it's not like he spends every waking moment of his day watching porn, if he did then I would be upset... Some porn is funny though... To each his own..

2006-09-11 16:10:17 · answer #7 · answered by Heather 3 · 0 0

if he wants to see other women naked he should have commited to her and married her. Married is a promise to be faithful...(in mind and action)
She has every RIGHT . IMO it is grounds for divorce and apparently it is cited as the cause of modern divorce in one third of cases nowdays.
He has shown her many things by his actions.
1) he prefers the bodies of nubile 20yr olds than that of a mature woman who has borne (or will) his children and has all the sags and stretches to go with it
2) he has no respect for her
3 ) he has no respect for women in general
4) he is happy to cvontribute to the ongoing exploitation of women...
(and before you tell me the women consent....porn contributes to the terrible way EVERYDAY women are treated in the world) GDI I cant even take my kids down the street without the crap everywhere..Men have a lot to answer for (theres a hell of a lot more men consuming it than women posing for it)
GROW UP>>>YOU DONT EVEN DESERVE A WIFE IF YOU THINK THAT BEHAVIOUR SHOWS RESPECT< LOVE AND COMMITMENT

2006-09-11 16:50:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Wives have no rights at all, except for those which their husbands may choose to give them. If you disagree, you may be smoking some Guatemalan Insanity Peppers.

2006-09-11 15:29:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Sure, that's as good a reason as any to get upset with hubby.

2006-09-11 15:40:36 · answer #10 · answered by DelK 7 · 0 0

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