I asked a guy from work, out and there was this long awkward pause which seemed like 10 min. I think he was trying to think of somethinig to say to reject me politely, but all he said was that his only day off is Tues, which is the day he thinks I work (when I don't, but I didn't want to say to put him on the spot). I told him i had Saturdays off but he didn't say that was his day off too. He didn't know that I knew that he had Saturdays off. Anyway, after the long pause, and the BS explanation, I said, "ok, you're busy, I understand, and was about to walk away when he asked me if I wanted his num. I said no thanks, and then I asked him if he wanted my num. He took it, and that's it. I feel like he turned me down when I asked him out because if he really wanted to go out with me, then he would've said that he had saturdays off too. But then why did he offer to give me his number? And he took my number because he didn't have the balls to say, "no i don't want your number" didn't he?
2006-09-11 15:19:44 · 6 answers · asked by pureessence 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I forgot to mention. I didn't ask him out to dinner or anything formal like that. I asked him if he wanted to hang out sometime, maybe a movie or go bowling, casually just as friends, is what I said
2006-09-11 15:28:11 · update #1
Maybe he just recently changed his day off to saturday. Ya never know. I wouldn't say anything about knowing his day off. But it sounds like if he really did change his day off that he was confused when you turned down his phone number offer. And he took your number because he really does like you. Who knows? I had something like that happen and the guy got my number and never called. And I didn't know why until I totally got him back for it and he finally gave himself away as to why he didn't call. If the guy doesn't call I wouldn't even worry about it. His loss.
2006-09-11 15:28:59 · answer #1 · answered by Mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Havnt u heard the rule dont date people u work with. If u value your amployment then u should be careful. Maybe he wasnts to keep his job dating someone at work can create very difficult situations sounds like its started already. Better off going for coff and not a date. He probobly knows the rule dont mix business with pleasure.
2006-09-11 15:25:59 · answer #2 · answered by europe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him. Act like he is invisble. He would have made a real date with you then in person. What will a phone call help?
2006-09-11 15:24:21 · answer #3 · answered by C S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They want to make the girl feel special.
2006-09-11 15:22:26 · answer #4 · answered by Qb10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
10 minutes? I thin that's a BIG sign.
2006-09-11 15:29:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is still busy.
Or Maybe your right and he is jerk. and you might have been lucky he didn't call you!
2006-09-11 15:25:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋