Okay, so my friend went on a date and made out with this guy, who she felt a lot of compatability with. He was really smooth the whole date and they kissed and made out a lot during the date. (This day also happened to be her birthday and these kisses were her first ever.) Then, we just found on his myspace that he probably has a girlfriend. His girlfriend has posted all over his wall and they're all "in love" apparently. My friend feels terrible, because she has never been in this sort of situation before, and she really needs help. PLEASE COMMENT WITH GOOD ADVICE.
2006-09-11 15:16:45 · 21 answers · asked by Piper 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he was that "smooth" he can "smooth" his way away from her.
2006-09-11 15:20:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice would be to confront him about your findings on myspace, it could have been his girlfriend from awhile ago, some people dont update myspace too often soo ask him if its true. If it is true then your friend should tell the guy that she had fun on the date and they could have really been good together but it's not a big deal because she bumped into one of her old friend John and he wanted to hook up, but she told him no because of the guy. Yes it can be made up but he dont have to know it. Then just move on and find a different guy, theres a lot of guys looking for girls. Got any questions email me at joker33250@yahoo.com
2006-09-11 22:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by The King 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is life. There are good guys and then there are bad guys. Your friend (and you as well) should try to stick to the good guys in the future. It's kind of hard to tell by just looking at them, I know, but that's why it's better not to make out with guys before you actually know them well.
She should be happy that she found right away what a rat the guy was.
2006-09-11 22:21:15 · answer #3 · answered by eufrosyne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur friend that for starters she did nothing wrong!!!!!! she had no idea dis guy might have had a girl, it was the guy who screwed up, not her, so she's not in the wrong, jus next time(if she hadn't this time) make sure a guy you're seein' confirms to u he's single. Ask him! Some may lie, but if they do, that's not on you, that's on them. Good luck i wish u the best! dont let these ****** get u stressed out, half of em aint gon be worth it no how!
2006-09-11 22:30:23 · answer #4 · answered by Here2Help 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this sort of happened to my friend once but um we just made a fake myspace account using a picture from the internet pretending to be her boyfriend and kept asking questions like so do you have a gf? or so was blank ur first gf? u know stuff like that anyways how old is ur friend???
2006-09-11 22:25:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's sleazy enough to date when he has a gf in the first place then he obviously isn't worth the trouble. She needs to forget about him and find someone new or she's going to get hurt.
2006-09-11 22:23:38 · answer #6 · answered by Monkeybunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy was being a "Two-Timer" that night. Its not your friends fault that the guy is "in love" with the other girl. My advice.... make you friend dump the guy HARD so he woun't forget it. And tell the other girl that he kissed your freind so she'll dump him, then hes got no girlfirend.
2006-09-11 22:22:56 · answer #7 · answered by Vulcan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OmG that lik suxx! what an a hole that dude is to b messing wit ur friend! u mite wanna tell ur friend that if hes lying to her and cheating...he obviously isn't worth grieving over and she should move on. I know it's hard...but she needs to try. Hope i helped!=P
2006-09-11 22:20:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to this guy ask him what the scoop is and if he has a g/f tell him he is not the smartest person around and that he should tell his g/f what happened making sure she know it was his fault not your friends.
2006-09-11 22:20:41 · answer #9 · answered by peanut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should run from that guy. He apparently has no problem cheating on his girl so he would have no problem cheating on her. I know it is easier to say than do but that is what is best for her. She needs someone who is better for her than that.
2006-09-11 22:23:05 · answer #10 · answered by candee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think that she should call him or just go talk to him and tell him how she feels b/c maybe he was just making her feel good on the date or just bein nice to her but i think she needs to talk to hi and his g/f.
2006-09-11 22:30:21 · answer #11 · answered by Ashley R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋