by romantic a mean mostly loving man-women relationship not so much casual sex(if there is such a thing). Being in the mental state I am in. I am bi-polar. I really think women for me are a path to destruction. I don't mean to be sexist. I'm only 26..but at this point I just want stability and most of all peace. Call me crazy but I feel if I can divert my urges it will be like a load off my back
2006-09-11 15:02:47 · 8 answers · asked by hittykkiod 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I think that you can't live a full and happy life without loving someone special. But I don't think that you have to rush into it. If you look for it it won't happen. And if it is that much of a pain then I don't think that you have found the right person yet. You will know and it will feel right. NOw like a huge hassel.
2006-09-11 15:13:51 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar53 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is entirely possible. However you should think about it. You are very young. the old saying goes God created someone for everyone. I am sure that there is someone special out there for you, but if there isn't that's OK too. Not everyone is supposed to be in a relationship. The "urges" will probably not lessen for a while but men do slow down eventually (my girlfriends and I all have husbands in their 40's). are you on medication? If so keep working with your doctor to keep it regulated If you aren't maybe you should consider it. To many men feel that they have to be strong or that because they are Men they can handle it. My friend's husband is bipolar and refuses help because he can handle it. He really can but only because she is loving and willing to wait it out with patience and understanding until he is feeling good again.God Bless you!
2006-09-11 15:17:34 · answer #2 · answered by Mom of 5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take time out for yourself and get settled on your medication. Try some relaxation therapy and talk with others about your problems. If you can be in control of your disorder you will have the confidence to have relationships.
Best of luck and I hope you can feel better soon.
2006-09-11 15:10:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wise to already be happy prior to seeking a relationship. Happiness cannot be found in possession of others, rather it is something you must find within yourself.
If you are taking your medication, good. Keep up your visits with your doctor.
2006-09-11 15:31:11 · answer #4 · answered by ebizartistry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like youve already made the decision to be single...its not selfish to just wanna take care of yourself being in a relationship can be stressful
2006-09-11 15:07:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he won't be happy because he thinks he is missing out on something, but after 20 yeaes of mariage I gladly trade places with him
2006-09-11 15:09:34 · answer #6 · answered by acid tongue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes as long as he has a TV!
2006-09-11 15:15:18 · answer #7 · answered by michelle n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you still "choke the chicken?"
2006-09-11 15:06:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋