i have recently been divorced after a ten yr marriage and have not been able to get intimate with another wome caused iam self concious of my penis size it is about4-5 inches erect and very thin my ex said it never was an issue but i have a couple of female friends that sadi they prefer a big penis.i tried shaving to make it look bigger,i need a womens honest opion and advice is it to small,iam i worried about notjing please help
2006-09-11 14:58:34 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-09-11 15:00:18 · answer #1 · answered by monkeedee2 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one. For some women this would be a problem,but the only way you will know if the woman that you are interested in finds it a problem is to be intimate with her. There are a number of other ways to give a woman pleasure than just with your penis,and as long as you learn how to use your hands and your tongue your size should not be a big problem.
2006-09-11 22:07:53 · answer #2 · answered by blondecarpenter@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will be honest. To some women, size does matter. Some it doesn't. Some prefer someone who is smaller. There are women out there, that the thought if a big penis scares them. If someone really loves you, it won't be an issue. Where some guys lack in size, they make up for in performance. I wouldn't let it bother you to much. I have seen smaller, so don't let it get you down. Hope it helps!
2006-09-11 22:03:29 · answer #3 · answered by titter_titters 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not the size that matters it's how you use it. Trust me. Besides, there are other ways to please a woman other than w/ your penis. Use your mouth and fingers. Roll your hips while you're in the middle of intercourse if you're that worried about it. If you're in a serious relationship w/ a woman she'll be able to overlook your penis size. Also, if you are really, really self conscious you can order Enzyte the natural male enhancement. It comes to your house (apartment, etc.) in a small, discreetly wrapped package. Good luck and don't worry about it so much. Hope this helps.
2006-09-11 22:06:04 · answer #4 · answered by garfield 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are worried about nothing it is not necessarily the size that brings the pleasure it is what you do with it. if you think you have a small penis then that is psychologically holding you back from being intimate. sometimes you not only have to make love to a woman physically but also mentally if you can satisfy her in these ways you should not be worried. just keep in mind that some men that have big penises don't know what to do with them.
2006-09-11 22:33:32 · answer #5 · answered by chocolatefancier 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are worried about nothing yes some women do prefer a larger penis but some find that if it is too big it hurts and if a woman really likes you then it should not matter what size you are
2006-09-11 22:02:06 · answer #6 · answered by peanut 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are in a meaningful relationship, it really won't matter.Sex is the "icing on the cake". It is the physical act of expressing your love and affection for that person. I have been with my boyfried for 1 year and even though he has a big penis I have not had an orgasm. But it doesn't matter to me b/c I am in love with him and I enjoy the closeness of him when making love.
2006-09-11 22:02:37 · answer #7 · answered by cuteGIRL01 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been with men that was small and some that were big.. and to tell the real truth.. the ones with the small ones were better because they new how to use forplay... and believe me size does not matter..
Another thing that might make you feel better is that women that had kids are always afraid they are way to big now..
2006-09-11 22:06:33 · answer #8 · answered by Ibdreamin099 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't date the penis, I date the man.
Sex is such a small part of a relationship. So you're penis is small, big woop. I've been in relationships with people with small penises and I still have a good time. Most women can't achieve orgasm via intercourse alone, you need to use your hand and rub her clit at the same time. That will make her achieve orgasm.
And in fact, your penis is the perfect size to fit in an anus and that sounds good to me. :-)
2006-09-11 22:02:06 · answer #9 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Dude did you know there is a porno star that is going around telling people the little ones are better and she wrote a book about it, I can't remember her name but it made me worry mine was to big, its not always a big one they want from what im hearing, you know some chicks are kinda small down there too so a big one doesn't fit to well, i guess what im saying is there is someone out there for you.
2006-09-11 22:16:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Steve, you have a perfectly legitimate question and concern. But as a heterosexual woman.........size is way overrated. Think of the benefits of what you have.......when your woman wants to give you oral sex the fit is just perfect for her and when giving her anal sex......also a perfect fit. Give consideration and thought to foreplay, make use of those great "toys" on the market and dress up outfits for the two of you. It'll be all good!
2006-09-11 22:12:19 · answer #11 · answered by Janet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋