BUT it annoys me that he scold me , raising his voice(he's not aggressive though) i didn't like getting scold, so i said " that's it" bye, and he said i'm not finished,let me finished,i felt so humiliated was he right to do that ? was that necessary ? maybe if he would have talk very calm.
2006-09-11 14:57:05 · 21 answers · asked by dersexy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It was unnecessary, but he was right. It's different when you're married, things belong to the both of you.
2006-09-11 15:11:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, he has the right to be upset about it. Did you even apologize or offer to pay for the damages? When I was in college, a friend of mine used my car when I was gone and I noticed my keys were gone. I was really mad about it and she was in the room when I asked my roommate where my keys were. So i know what's it's like when people don't ask and it really frustrated me, but I didn't yell or scold her. I just told her not to borrow my car without asking. I would say it wouldn't have been a problem if you and your boyfriend had an understanding or agreement that you could use his car. But it was rather disrespectful that you didn't bother to ask him. And then don't even let him speak his mind about it. He might not trust you now after this or won't let you use his car again. Maybe you could just talk to him again about it and tell him that you just want to have a normal mature conversation about him and hear him out. If you can't communicate with eachother then what's the point of having a relationship? If you don't work this problem out, it will only cause more communication problems down the road. Hope that helped.
2006-09-11 15:07:30 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you're going to take something that valuable without permission you need to be ready for the consequences should something happen. He's right to scold you. Of course he'd be upset with you.. That's his car. It's going to cost HIM a lot of money to get those scratches fixed. I think if you care for him enough you'll help him pay for the damages. You get what you deserve. It's called cause and effect.
2006-09-11 15:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by Monkeybunny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-07 03:34:39 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you did take his car WITHOUT his permission you dumb b*tch. He has every right to scold you. You're lucky that's all he did. He could have called he cops on you. Then you ****** his car up, too. Do you plan on paying to get his car fixed? A mature adult would help pay for the damages to his car. If that was YOUR car, you'd be a little upset too, don't you think?! Use your head next time. He should dump your azz.
2006-09-11 15:07:29 · answer #5 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You seem extremely self-absorbed. You acted selfishly taking his car without his permission. Then, you seem to only care about feeling humiliated. You never mention that you felt any regret about your own actions.
While he should have acted in a calmer manner, that doesn't change the fact that you only care about what you want and how you feel.
Are you beyond reproach?
2006-09-11 15:09:09 · answer #6 · answered by Gin Martini 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, he has the rights to scold you, when you took his car without permission. how would you react if he borrowed something of yours without your permission and damaged it? I'm sure you'd scream at him. You're not his wife, he's not your husband, even then if you're his wife, you still have to ask your husband if it's okay to take his car out. I'd never take anything of my husband's without asking him first, even though he has said it's okay since we're married. It's called manners and respect eachother's belonging's. Btw, you taking his car without permission, he can sue you for that.
2006-09-11 15:01:59 · answer #7 · answered by superboredom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i will tell you like i tell all women you dont ***** with a mans car. you were wrong for taking it without permission, i can also understand him being pissed you broke up with him first so it really doesnt matter what he said afterwards, it was you who did the dumping it also sounds that you didnt really care too much about what happened to his car, if he isnt suing you for repairs then you are lucky maybe he doesnt hate you after all. seem like you got off easy.
2006-09-11 15:04:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you took the car without permission, you are the one in the wrong. Apologize for running off with his car, and for damaging it....
Sorry, but I'd be mad, too.
2006-09-11 15:00:00 · answer #9 · answered by from HJ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry about your luck,but you screwed up and he has every right to be mad at you. What if you had a wreck driving his car, he would be looking at a lawsuit and for what. just because you wanted to take off with his car with out asking. What if it was your car and someone did that to you.
2006-09-11 15:02:23 · answer #10 · answered by Batson D. Belfrey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you had no right taking his car in the first place without his permission. i'm surprised he's still talking to you at all. give him time to cool down without hasselling him or you may not have a boyfriend anymore. i certainly wouldn't want to date someone who stole my propery, damaged it, and and then tried to get the world to feel sorry for her by posting her situation on the internet. your boyfriend has the right to be angry. grow up
2006-09-11 15:01:57 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋