I found out on a accident that she cheated on me and her cousin told me and I broke up with her. But I reallly miss her and I dont know what to do??? Can I trust her any more???
2006-09-11 14:56:43 · 15 answers · asked by Rick M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dumbass
2006-09-11 14:57:59 · answer #1 · answered by mikebrennan_us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get back together with her. It's natural to miss her at first - you loved her and you're used to spending a lot of time with her. But that feeling won't last forever. She's not the last woman in the world and life will keep moving and you can start a whole new happy life without her just fine. You will get over her.
Do you want to be with someone who looked you dead in the eye knowing full well that she slept with some other guy the night before? And now she can look you in the eye and beg for another chance. So no you can't trust her. She will do it again. And you will drive yourself crazy trying to look for evidence of whether or not she's cheating. Then when she cheats again, you will hate yourself for having given her a second chance, got even more involved with her, and wasted time with her that you could have been spending finding someone else. Save yourself the heartache and crap and move on to someone who will honor you whether you're there or not. She cheated you, but don't make it worse by cheating yourself.
2006-09-11 22:33:47 · answer #2 · answered by Purple 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will be a cheather until she loses someone she cares about because of her cheating. If you actually care about her, let her go and sleep in the bed she made. If she realizes she cared about you for real, then she probably won't cheat on the next guy she cares about. Don't expect to find out about it, either. Just remind yourself that your are doing a very noble thing for the both of you by ending your relationship. Don't do it because you're mad. Do it because you do care about her and hope that she will never hurt anyone like that again because of your conviction.
2006-09-11 22:05:11 · answer #3 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah sure go back and one night when you get off work early you will come home and find her in the doggy style getting pounded by the next door neighbor. im sorry that came out mean but really do you want to be with someone you have to constantly wonder about wondering if they are cheating on you its exhausting find you a good gil that only want you she's out there dont settle for heart ache you deserve better.
2006-09-11 22:00:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLL NAH! once a cheater always a cheater, if u cheat yer worthless and that is disrespectful towards u, trust me don't get back with her
2006-09-11 21:58:36 · answer #5 · answered by thisgrrllovespurple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think with your head and not the one down there! Are you sure this was the first AND only time it happened? Tough call. Best of luck!
2006-09-11 21:59:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one knows if you can trust her again except you. If there is love between the two of you then I say give it another try. good luck
2006-09-11 21:58:33 · answer #7 · answered by cuteGIRL01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope... leave her in her own holy dust and let her become a speck in your rearview mirror...
2006-09-11 22:01:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER! Once a cheater always a cheater she does not deserve you.
2006-09-11 21:59:45 · answer #9 · answered by jessicablakey1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not Move on
2006-09-11 21:57:47 · answer #10 · answered by day dreamin baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yes u should and if she does it again shes not the one for you
2006-09-11 21:58:11 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋