just recently, i noticed a girl. she looked cute.she is a bookworm. she has a good personality and thats why i like her. we hung out but it was boring. she and i have nothing in common in that she like the things that i don't. i like her because she's cofident in the way she looks and how she acts. should i give it another go and whut shoulde we do. when should i tell her that i like her and want her to be mai gf. this is not a crush so don't think of it this way. by doing whut things should i do to make her like me back. i need help and fast. should i go after her now before its too late, and if i do whut should i say, i'm shy.
2006-09-11 14:46:39 · 15 answers · asked by john g 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when two people have nothing in common but possible are attracted to one another the only thing to do is to first be yourself never try and become something that you are not just so that person can like you ... it takes up too much time to try and keep the lie going. secondly, try to get to her by letting her show you or educate you in some of her interests. ask her favorite things to do and if you know nothing about any of those things just tell her to explain it/them to you and that is a good conversation you never know that may break the ice and then you could tell her some of the things that interest you and possibly you could show /tell her why you like the things you do. if things don't click after that then she may not be the one for you. and you can't make a person like you in that special way no matter what you say or do.
2006-09-11 14:59:31 · answer #1 · answered by chocolatefancier 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were bored and you have nothing in common...why do you want to pursue her? However, if you still want to date her ask her to do some of the things SHE enjoys with you next time and then the next time show her YOUR world. See if you can interest each other in what each of you likes. If neither of you can find interests in common then you should probably look for someone else.
2006-09-11 21:52:10 · answer #2 · answered by Dellajoy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her go for it!! Try doing something that you both think you would enjoy. Talk to her about things that you both may have in common that you don't already know and find something to do. And even if you don't think you'll like it, you may find out that you like doing something she does. If the two of you get along, ask her to be your girlfriend. Good luck to ya!
2006-09-11 21:50:28 · answer #3 · answered by banana_splitt00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to strike up a conversation a little better. From the sounds of it you didn't make much of an attempt to really get to know her. Just keep trying. The more you get to know someone, the less shy you become. I don't know why but it just does.
2006-09-11 21:50:46 · answer #4 · answered by lady_ellie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since she is bookworm, you should find out what type of books she is interested in. if she is interested in history or art, take her a museum. get to know what she is interested in, smarten yourself and talk about it with her. you can start by simply asking what she has been reading lately and asking her about it. "what do you think about it?" build from there.
2006-09-11 21:57:36 · answer #5 · answered by clueless_idiot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself , and if you want to find out more about her and learn more about her-ASK HER! Buy her flowers and candy. Tell her what you like about her and what you want to do to get to know her better! Take her bowling and make the first kiss special! One she will cherish... good luck, youi've only just begun-HAVE FUN!!!!
2006-09-11 21:53:16 · answer #6 · answered by motherpeanutbutterbutinsky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-11 21:48:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try things that she is into. talk to her my ex and i dint have anything in common but we worked for about 2 yrs the only thing that could hurt is dont cotroll if he wasn't like that we would of made it.
2006-09-11 21:54:15 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go after her and be your self. since ur both shy, u might have an inner connection and be able to open up to each other.
2006-09-11 21:48:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her on a date. You have to start somewhere.
2006-09-11 21:49:13 · answer #10 · answered by from HJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋