This has nothing to do with pregnacy, but I couldnt find a heading on this and I dont want some younger kids to read this. I guess you could say I dont even know if I have had an orgasm because I am unsure of how they feel. I am 19 and I am dating a great guy who makes me horny all the time. The thing is, I scream because it feels good, but I am not sure if thats me having an orgasm or not. Please give me some pointers to how I will know if I might be having one!!
2006-09-11 14:44:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Maybe you need to engage in some self-stimulation, so you can see the stages one goes through in achieving an orgasm
2006-09-11 14:46:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Linny, I have heard and read so many stories about women and sexuality, and after reading your question I infer that you get great pleasure from each experience. So then I ask myself "what more could a person want except the great pleasure you seem to experience".
What I am trying to say is this: What do you think is missing from your experiences? Maybe you are one woman who can experience all the same pleasures, but it just happens differently to you. Maybe you don't have the great mountain to climb, and then the exhilaration of falling into the wet pleasure of "orgasm", but rather have the competely satisfying experience of reaching a plateau that delivers the same or equal satisfaction, pleasure, and release just not suddenly.
So if you are being satisfied, feeling pleasure and "the wonderful world is great" feeling, then what are you missing?? I suggest you don't fret over it - if it ain't broke, don't take a wrench to it.
2006-09-11 14:53:56 · answer #2 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, you'll know when you have one. The other guy is right, try some different things yourself and if you can achieve an orgasm that way. Also, if you are close enough to this guy to be having sex, then you should be able to tell him about your dilemma. Let it become a game to see if he can get you to the big 'O'. Have fun with it, but don't let yourself stress over it or it'll never happen. Good luck.
2006-09-11 14:51:19 · answer #3 · answered by Steph D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no your not having an orgasm and your guy needs to take his time maybe even close your eyes and think about how good the friction of his penis in your vagina feels and rotate and grind at the same time you know when you are having one
2006-09-11 14:48:26 · answer #4 · answered by firered 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know... you haven't had one!!
Seriously though, I was unsure too because I had pleasure... it wasn't an orgasm though. Women don't orgasm everytime they have sex. Try different positions, and perhaps you will acheive the orgasm,
2006-09-11 14:46:48 · answer #5 · answered by tonip1963 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If Your Screaming then I'll bet Your Having One lol
2006-09-11 14:47:02 · answer #6 · answered by sugarbdp1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tightness of the goods, and other weird stuff.
It's called research (random research), and I'm 12. Don't ask.
2006-09-11 14:47:15 · answer #7 · answered by ZZ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
TRUST ME.....you will just know. If you have to ask this question, it's safe to assume you have never had one.
2006-09-11 14:46:53 · answer #8 · answered by deepadot 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You can just feel it building and building inside you until.....WOW! Believe me, you'll know when you have one.
2006-09-11 14:47:47 · answer #9 · answered by Taffi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask if you've had one you haven't. Believe me honey - when you have one you'll know :-)
2006-09-11 14:46:42 · answer #10 · answered by sunssecret 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋