2006-09-11 14:43:54 · 21 answers · asked by prometida 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
please ask the rest of your questions in the adolescent section
2006-09-11 14:46:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you are not in a committed marriage, it can be very painful emotionally. Young people do not know how to protect each other's feelings and provide emotional support needed to have sexual relationships. Many adults aren't very knowledgable about this either. Wait for marriage. When you are in love and married, the physical aspect of this question will not be a problem. You will respect each other and take your time. There will be no rushing, no secrets, and no back seats of cars. WAIT.
2006-09-11 21:54:05 · answer #2 · answered by Chris 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the person sweetie. It didn't hurt me at all....but as you can see it can hurt others. My advice is make sure you are ready. Make sure you're relaxed and you feel comfortable with the person you're doing it with. It's important to be aroused so that your bits are lubricated and it will help it happen easier. Personal lubricant can help if you don't feel wet enough, or if seems to hurt. The good news is - if it does hurt the first time or the first couple of times.....it wont last for long....then it feels great.
PS - Use protection!!
2006-09-11 22:02:52 · answer #3 · answered by bellajezz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its very pain full at first so when you do have sex tell the guy ok and you wont likely have sex the first time cause it hurt so you will have to try again later on you may have to wait till the next day and still it will hurt so go slow and it will take time until it doesn't hurt anymore so pls tell the guy to understand and not rush things and oh yeah don't just rush into it try to make your vagina get wet first before he puts it in cause if it just go in when its dry it will hurt so maybe he can go down on you or use lubricant and don't for get to use condom is a must ok good luck
2006-09-11 21:58:24 · answer #4 · answered by sabaku.no_gaara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know iam still a virgin,but i heard that the first time when you do it it hurts like freakin hell....but you keep doing it and doing it then it starts to feel really good....soon you will get addicted to it and thinks about it all the time.
2006-09-11 21:48:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends upon your feelings for the guy; the way he treats you; patience on his part; possibly size (?), and other factors. Because most of us are nervous and tend to tense up, it will hurt more. Remember though that some girls have actually lost their's in bicycle or horseriding accidents (true).
2006-09-11 21:49:01 · answer #6 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is really different for everyone, but for me it was like a few seconds of stinging. But sex didn't actually feel good until I had done it a few times.
Sex is such a huge thing when you're a virgin, till you do it, then you're like "oh, that's it", LOL.
Don't get me wrong sex is great, but the hype is bigger than the event.
2006-09-11 21:52:15 · answer #7 · answered by li li 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It is very intense---you are nervous anyway. It does hurt some. I just hope this is someone that you love nad is very caring and it will make the whole process easier
2006-09-11 21:46:48 · answer #8 · answered by pinkdog 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I depends on the man and how gentle he is with you, no matter his size, (unless he's way above average). It does hurt a very small bit but the pleasure negates that. Please be safe and use condomns. Don't let anyone tell you that it won't feel right. It is fine. Please be smart. Good luck
2006-09-11 21:50:53 · answer #9 · answered by laurapiano3 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The mere fact that you brought up in a public forum would suggest you're soon to find out. You can share your experience with us.
2006-09-11 21:48:21 · answer #10 · answered by nothing 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My first time was with a black guy who was pretty big and it didn't hurt that bad. I thought it would be way worse.
2006-09-11 21:46:58 · answer #11 · answered by laker_girl85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋