how do u impress a guy that thinks ur perfect.. not to mention the fact hes about to propose tonight i dont know what to do it just coming at me so fast i mean im only 16.. what do i do but i love him n dont want him to get away.... its pretty confusing
2006-09-11 14:40:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My friend he only see you perfect because he loves you , you need to act normal and don't try to over do things , be your self just the way he likes it, I see your future is going to be great!! remember not to rush things you are young.
2006-09-11 14:46:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's already proposing why do you need to impress him. let me tell you, im only two years younger than you and ive never even had a guy tell me more than "you're pretty" ONCE. you are very lucky to find a guy that thinks you're perfect so early in life. BUT there is a very low chance that you will still want him once you hit like 30, and divorce is never fun. who wants a sticky end? you should tell him that you will marry him if you can wait a few years...have a really long engagement...maybe even try living together(not sleeping together hopefully but whatever) for a few weeks and see how that works out for you. most likely, you will not be able to take the many responsibilities of being a wife-there are a LOT more than you think. No more being a lazy bum-you are committed for life if you say yes. Tell him you love him so much, but you want to make sure this will work and that you can take it. High school with marriage is no fun. believe me i know some ppl with that prblm. they have regrets, but are still in love...but for HOW LONG?
2006-09-11 21:46:10 · answer #2 · answered by aerie anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have only been alive for sixteen years and you have to deal with that. Why would you want that out of life. Try living a life out of school in the real world where you are held accountable for your action. 5 years from now you'll be 21 but 5 years ago you were 11. 10 years from now you'll be 26. 10 years ago you were 6.The point is what you want when you are 16 is not what you want when you are 26.
2006-09-11 21:53:05 · answer #3 · answered by mike and shannon R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in impressing someone because you will just overuse yourself to fit to someone's satisfaction. If he loves you..so be it. He should love you as you are. If he is impressed..well and good. If he'snot and he left you for that then it wasn't love after all.Be yourself. Goodluck & Godbless!
2006-09-11 21:47:37 · answer #4 · answered by justurangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give it up, that's if you haven't yet, tell him you're not ready if you don't want to go ahead with the proposal.
2006-09-11 21:54:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you can just tell him to wait for you.
say you're not ready, but you love him.
repeat this phrase or say something like this:
"I love you, but, i'm just not ready for this kind of commitment. I'm only sixteen"
2006-09-11 21:44:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he already thinks ur perfect...wat more can u do??
2006-09-11 21:44:00 · answer #7 · answered by tiffany072390 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if it's ment to be he will fall for you, but if not, let nature take its course.
2006-09-11 21:42:08 · answer #8 · answered by bam chicka wa wa ;] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you're not ready, if he loves you he'll wait
2006-09-11 21:44:30 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋