i told him i like him, and he told me he likes me too. 2 days later, we made out at a party. and theres this girl who dislikes me for liking him. cause she likes him too. but he told me he doesnt like her, and has told her that too..i feel confused, and dont know why..should i call him? should i text should i message him? people have told me, that he likes me, and that i should go for it. but now some people are telling me that hes torn between me and the other girl.. what do i do!!?? HELP!
2006-09-11 14:39:01 · 28 answers · asked by lola_19_00 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-09-11 14:40:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
LEAVE him be. If he likes you then great HE will call you. If not then don't waste your time. If you are torn between two different people then neither one of those people really mean that much to you. If he really liked you the way that he said he did and meant what he said about the other girl, then he would have called you 2 days ago. Don't make yourself too available to this guy. Trust me, it is human nature to want what you can't have and then when you get it you don't want it as bad anymore. If you are there whenever he wants you to be, where is the thrill of the chase for him? TRUST ME, DON"T CALL HIM, WAIT. And then when he finally calls you, make him call 2-3 times before you answer, no matter how bad it kills you.
2006-09-11 14:45:02 · answer #2 · answered by "Jada McQueen" 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There has to be a reason he hasn't called you. I believe if he is head over heels for you he would make the call the next day (keep that in mind). He may have been saying things just to get some. Be the bigger person and give him a call, but hold your ground, don't give the goods too easy... make hime work alot harder for it now (you are the boss). I played a game like this once and the the girl didn't want to play at all. Games are for kids. You are in a grown up world.
2006-09-11 14:45:59 · answer #3 · answered by torontos_own 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you told him you feelings and he has expressed interest in you then I think that you should let him call you don't seem so anxious be patient but if you don't hear from him in the next 3 to 4 days call him and just say "that you just called to see how he was and if everything was ok" but don't put too much pressure on him about the two of you getting together...guys don't handle pressure at all they would rather turn and run away.
2006-09-11 14:47:35 · answer #4 · answered by chocolatefancier 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send him a text see if he wants to catch a movie with you or something if he says he's busy and the excuse doesnt seem legit then theres reason to be concern. i wouldnt make too much out of him not calling in two days guys do that sometime call him once but dont continue calling he will think you are clingy good luck
2006-09-11 14:42:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok here it goes. Now I can't tell you exactly what to do because I don't know this guy but if you like him then you should call him and see what's up, he may be just playing hard to get. Now if he starts to act a little suspicious then you need to follow up. Tell him that you need to know where you guys stand and if he wants to be with you or not.
2006-09-11 14:46:20 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had this promblem once... if hes torn between you and sumone else he obviosuly didnt like u as muhc as he though n you can so better then him so just like sumone else and forget aobut him its because of him people are heartbroken you know u should know who u like u shouldnt have to wait and think about it u should just know if u have to think then its not as strong as you thought ti was... he prolly didnt like u anyways uys are asses he prolly wanted in ur pants or just to make out forget him u dont need him
2006-09-11 14:43:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve an answer or some sort of explanation from that person. Initiate it yourself and give him a shout....maybe he is having the same thoughts as you.
2006-09-11 14:42:21 · answer #8 · answered by Chris R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a teen. Wait and see if he calls you. Make out? Kiss or further. I hope its not love em and leave em.
2006-09-11 14:42:00 · answer #9 · answered by sizzlingl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl leave him alone, wait for him to approach you , and next time don't go making out with people who have no comittment to you.
2006-09-11 14:57:21 · answer #10 · answered by micheleh29 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go make out with some more people. Who cares?
2006-09-11 14:42:54 · answer #11 · answered by kris10dice 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋