My Dog was Just put down and i have miss him so much i dont knoe what to do not think about him as much help?

Question

i need help i miss him sooo much and i cant keep thinking about him so i am getting another dog but marco knoes everything about he knoes more than my bffs i told him stuff no one knoes and i want a real bff but no backstabber and i bonded with him plz help me i am in desperate need

Answer 1

It may seem hard but im sure it was the right thing for you to do. It would most likly help if you went to google click images and type in dog poems read the rainbow bridge, it made me cry but helped eased the pain of my dog that was killed by another dog I had her sice the day i was born, im only 14, read some other peoms it my make you cry but you will feel the ease, im sorry about your fuzzy baby (thats what i call my dogs) im sure you did the right thing. And im sure he is happy across the rainbow bridge. I know he is happy where he is , he has every thing he wants but one thing isnt there and that thing is what he wants most of all, you.
here is a poem to help right now

Im not there

Do not stand at my grave and weep, I am not there I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow. I am the diamond glits in the snow. I am the sunlight on the ripend grain. I am the gentel atums rain. When you awaken in the mornings rush I am the swift uplifting rush, of circled birds up in hight. I am the soft stars that shine at night. So do not stand at my grave and cry, I am not there, I did not die.


When the dog you love becomes a memory, That memory becomes a treasure.


This one is just for you, it may be long but it is worth it

My furry Friend
I remember bringing you home- you were so soft and small with your tiny paws and cuddly furr. You bounced around the room with eyes flashing and ears flopping, once in a while you would let out a little yellp just to let me know i was your territory. Makeing a mess of the house and chewing on every thing became a passion, and when i scolded you , you just put your head down and looked at me with those innocent eye. As you got older you protected me by looking out the window and barking at every one who walked by. when i had a tough day at work you would be waiting for me with your tail wagging just to say "Welcome home, i missed you", you were always there for me. When i sat down to read the paper and watch tv, you would hop up on my lap looking for attention. you never asked for anything but for me to pat your head so you could go to sleep with your head on my leg. As you got older you grew slower and one day age finnaly took its toll and you couldnt stand on those wobbly legs any more, I knelt down and patted your head trying to make you young age and trying to hold back the tears. you just looked up at me as if to say that you were old and tired and that after all these years of not asking for anything you had to ask me this one last favor. So with tears in my eyes i drove you to the vet one last time. For some reason you were able to stand up in the animal hospital, perhaps it was your since of pride, as the vet lead you away you stopped for an instant and turned your head to look at me as if to say "thank you for taking care of me" and i thought "no, thank you for taking care of me".

Bless you and i hope this eases the pain.

Answer 2

I had to put my best dog ever down about 3 years ago. It is perfectly normal for you to grieve, and it won't stop in a few days. If it helps, remove his items, but don't dispose of them, the day will come when you will want to see these things again. I do NOT recommend that you get another dog too quickly, as the chances of the new dog being like the old dog are very slim, and you will resent the new dog for that, which would not be fair to him (or you). Take the time to grieve your loss, and when you can think of your dog and smile, then go out and get another dog, when you will be much more ready to accept that this is a different animal, and not a replacement for your current one. Sometimes, it is better to do without, than it is to be unfair to another animal.

Answer 3

i sorry for ur lost :( i know how it feels to lose a love one. it's like their a family member. I lost my rott pit mix about 2 years ago. when i see her picture or hear her name i start tearing up. It was very hard for me and family. All i can really tell u. That it takes time. Yes you'll hurt and miss but ur heart will heal. All u did to remember it's that Marco is in a better place. Happy playing with other dogs. give it time

Answer 4

Just remember you gave your dog the best life, he'she is so much luckier than the strays, those getting abused or eaten in other parts of the world.

Get another puppy and give it the same good life with lots of TLC. Marco will understand and be so proud of you.

Answer 5

Good for you getting another dog! We have been through that b4 so i can relate. However, don't run out tomorrow and get another dog so quick. Give yourself some time to grieve and get over it a bit. Remember when you do get another dog that you are going to be just as much a stranger to him as he is to you. Be patient with him b/c it will take time for the two of you to bond.
Good luck!

Answer 6

Losing a dog you loved is the same as losing any person you care about. It will take time to work through what you are feeling, so let yourself grieve. Of course you miss him and think of him...he had a very important place in your life and to have it empty so suddenly is going to take time to work through. Don't be afraid to remember and miss him. But just like with the people in our life, if the grief takes over your life to where you can't function or feel depressed, be sure to talk to a therapist, church member or someone else you trust. They will understand your pain and be able to help you through it.

Answer 7

I know how hard it is to lose a pet, they are a part of the family and im so sorry you have to go through this. The best thing for you to do right now is to let yourself cry, let yourself grieve, it's only normal to be thinking of him and for it to be hard to think about anything else. When it gets too much, talk to the people who will support you, craw, write, excercise, do things you like to do. As for the boy situation...follow your heart to some extent, but make sure you protect it as well, by using your head when you make any decisions. Be upfront and honest, and do what will make you happiest.

Answer 8

Well im not an expert but, I wuld maybe get a new dog. That dosen't really help I know what ya mean. You could try......... maybe to um get somone or somthing that you could share your secrets with agian. Really I have no idea need anything else e-mail me at [e-mail]

Answer 9

There's nothing wrong with thinking about him. You need to let yourself grieve first in order to be able to move on. Why don't you try writing a poem or a song about him? Or write a story? Or if art is your thing, draw a picture? Expressing your feelings about him will actually help you to get past the pain better than just trying to forget.

Answer 10

dont get a new puppy yet,u need time to heal,i think u and your family should get some fish,and u can relax,just watching thoses swim,i would wait at least 2 or 3 months.i no how u feel,this what i did,and i worked better for me.put if your gonna get u a puppy get u one that,is gonna be small,like a chihuahia puppy.