Help SOme Big Guy wants to kick my azz?

Question

Today I called him Big But i didnt mean it as in fat or anything and know he wants to kick my azz i went up to tell him i didnt mean it dat way and he just starred at me and walked away if i fight him i get in so much trouble by my parents but if i just run from him ima chicken **** i know if i fight him im gonna die so what should i do?

Answer 1

Dumb question, but the fact that this kid is quivering in fear from some bully is the by-product of our emasculated culture. At one point, dads commonly went to the sporting good store and bought their kids boxing gloves so they could duke it out with the neighborhood kids. Learning to throw a punch and take care of your self in a fight used to be a basic thing that young men were taught by their fathers, older brothers or whatever.

The best idea is to learn how to avoid a fight. If you have to fight, you have to remember that most guys--even ones that pretend to be "tough guys" don't really *want* to fight. Hopefully you can come up with a better alternative, but if it comes down to you and the bully you're going to have to commit to the fight. In a street fight, typically the guy who takes the initiative is the guy that ends up standing. So if you have to throw down with this guy, don't be afraid to go apesh*t on him. He's probably never been in a real fight himself, and just expects you to cower when he acts like a tough guy.

I'd suggest if it comes to it don't pose and try to throw jabs. Just try to to break his nose. Aim for the tip of his nose and make believe that you're trying to push the bone of his nose backwards through his brain out of the back of his head. A swift, well placed punch is much more effective in this regard than a haymaker. 9 times of of 10 a broken nose will end the fight.

Answer 2

I've been in a few fights in my day, so here's what I have to say:
1: Avoid a confrontation. If you have a chance to explain or apologize - DO IT.
2: If you can't avoid a confrontation, and he seeks you out - run. That's right, run. Worried about people calling you chicken? Well, then you're probably stupid and deserve to be beaten up. Worry about being hurt or killed. Even if you win - worry about being sued, imprisoned or beaten to a pulp by the other guys' friends. Don't fight.
3: If you can't run - fight dirty. A street fight is no kung fu movie. Nose, knees, groin, whatever possible. But just don't fight, ok? See points one and two.

Answer 3

Look what happens when you talk trash? Keep your trap shut if you can't back it up dude. I am very confident I can whip most people, there are many I can not. Why do I say that? I don't talk trash to someone who'd beat me, but I won't talk trash to someone I can beat because it's cowardice. The point is respect. If you can't respect people to be nice, do it so you don't get in trouble, or when you grow a concious, so you don't hurt someone's feelings. Let us put the shoe on the other foot. You don't want to look like a wimp if you don't fight? Maybe he doesn't want to look like a wimp because of what you said, now to "redeem himself" he HAS to fight, or HE'LL look weak. Ever think about that, or only yourself? When people ask for pointers in fighting here, I tell them. But in your case, since your parents never taught you respect for others, I hope he does. Again, I don't talk trash, but if someone talks trash to me or especially my girl, you won't do it twice. But in the end, take this as a lesson, others will back me up on this, if he didn't break your pencil neck then, he's not going to, but he'll punk you out a few more times. You need to think before you talk next time, I hope your dumb little uncreative joke was worth this. If you are afraid of bigger guys, you are absolutely gutless. Good day. Where's my 10 point Mister Trashtalk?

Answer 4

Try to apologize again to his face. If that isn't good enough, get in the first shot as hard as you can to the bridge of his nose right between the eyes followed by a kick to the shin. Try not to fight but if forced to, give it all you got.

Answer 5

the best way to deal with someone bigger than you is to stop the body from functioning properly. your muscles need oxygen in order to work, if you stop the oxygen then the body doesn't work as effective as it should. what you should do is place a well aimed shot at the solar plexus ( just below the chest, kinda midway on the torso) and watch as this guy tumbles!! you don't have to hit it particularly hard as its quiet a weak part of the human anatomy.

hope this helps.

Answer 6

It sounds like it's all in ur mind,u explained,he lOOked at u and walked away,if he was going to do anything,you would already be goty.Don't make it into more then what it is,And if u have to get it on,get busy;Don't be a coward or that's what u'll always be!

Answer 7

don't go out like a punk.. here's two pieces of advice

1) NUTS.... kick him in the boys.... then beat the brakes off his azz.

2) KNEE CAP... if number 1 for some reason doesn't work... this one will... kick in the cap... he'll go down like a rock

Answer 8

you obviosly called him this name, and he has taken offense to it because he HAS a big butt.
the moral to the story is...
NEVER PICK ON SOMEBODY BIGGER THAN YOU.
if you really want to resolve this issue.... simply approach the guy you have insulted, and offer him an apology.
if he kicks your a$$ in the process then it will be a good lesson to you to never call people hurtful names.

Answer 9

if that happen to me i would just run away even if they call me a chicken eventually they are going to forget about that and if you fight then back you could even be dead it is not worth it

just walk away and ignore them sometimes they are just looking
for troubles

Answer 10

Bend over an offer him your azz!