2006-09-11 13:23:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If they are married, give up.
When I was 17 my sister sent me a picture of her friend Kyle and his dog. On the picture it had an arrow pointing to Kyle saying "my future husband" and an arrow pointing to the dog saying "my future dog, too." On the back of the picture she wrote "Kyle needs to break up with his girlfriend so he can marry me"
They were just friends and she never told him how she felt until after he finally did break up with his girlfriend. Fastforward 4 years- they're married now. :-)
2006-09-11 13:27:25 · answer #1 · answered by The New Mrs. Nguyen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is already taken then I would say, unfortunately, move on with your life. There is someone out there for you that isn't taken.
If at some point his situation were to change tell him to look you up then. Don't wait around hoping he will leave the situation and let life pass you by. If he is "the one" it will work out but don't wait around for it to happen because you may just miss out on something wonderful.
Love hurts sometimes but - as the saying goes - if you love something set it free if it comes back it was meant to be and if it doesn't it never was - or something to that affect.
Good luck!!
Patty
2006-09-11 20:30:34 · answer #2 · answered by PattyW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's been my experience that moving on with your life is the best in the long run. My husband and I lusted after each other even though he was married with 2 kids. I didn't care if I was busting up a family, I had to have him. He eventually divorced and we married. Then he went back with his ex-wife for a year and came back to me, but the damage was done. We ended up divorcing....I love him still but he loves both of us and there's no future in that. Just make sure that doesn't happen to you...)(
2006-09-11 20:32:15 · answer #3 · answered by MissKathleen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON
there IS someone else out there for you who is available for you. Chasing after someone who loves someone else is only going to HURT you. Life is NOT the movies, and romances don't end like the movies. "Never giving up" can look a LOT like stalking. MOVE ON, or you could be denying yourself real love by avoiding looking for someone else.
2006-09-11 20:25:46 · answer #4 · answered by KB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. I've been there and done that. And wasted years of my life. If it aint meant to happen, it aint gonna happen. I spent so much of myself trying to get this person to reciporocate. I KNEW it was meant to be. KNEW it!!! Guess what? It was apparently NOT meant to be. And I knew it was. Foggetaboutit. Move on. I feel your pain, even to this day. And I'm talkin' 15 years ago. God, I loved her. Or so I thought.
2006-09-11 20:29:56 · answer #5 · answered by Johnny P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, if you care about someone, and they're committed to someone else, they aren't for you.
You should never try to come between a couple, that's wrong, imagine how you would feel if someone did it to you??
Stay out of other people's relationships and find someone who is available.
2006-09-11 20:27:12 · answer #6 · answered by Angeleyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Taken as in Married? = Move on.
Taken as in Dating even seriously = keep the hope and flirting!
2006-09-11 20:25:24 · answer #7 · answered by ZIAGACITY 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on and keep an eye out if they're ever free. Maybe by that time your feelings might have faded. If they haven't I hope it was worth the wait.
2006-09-11 20:27:18 · answer #8 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should move on with your life. If you could get him or her away from the person they are with why would you want a cheater?
2006-09-11 20:27:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. It is hard, but that is life. Your strength of character is being tested, and ask yourself what is it about this one that you cannot find in another.
2006-09-11 20:25:59 · answer #10 · answered by snowpuss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋