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Question

I have a HUGE crush on this guy and ALL my friends tell me we should go out I think he likes me to he just hasn't told me yet. Well we will be sitting in lunch 2gether and my friend, Jen, says Laura(me) you and John (My crush) should go out. I don't know what to say when she says that because I don't what to say Oh yeah I'm in love with John or some thing stupid like that. When she says that what do I say? Give me some ideas of what 2 say when ever she says that with out saying flat out that I like him. Just like giving him a hint that he WILL get. Thanks!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

Say Hiyyyeee, I'm lala and I'm like so totally glad to see you today and whatever. You have to jump up and down while you're saying all of this.

Answer 2

Well, if your friend is sitting there saying "you should go out," hints are already being thrown - when she says it, you look at John, smile, then look away. THEN talk to him about something you both like (if you don't know what he's interested in, then it's time to chat with him - no pressure, just chat - and find out).

When you hit on something you both are interested in, you issue a general offer. Say you both love skateboarding (or old movies, or whatever, but for now, let's say it's skateboarding). You bring up the local skateboard park and say, "We should get together and work on our (fill in the trick)." Or "I'd love to check out that movie." If his head isn't made of concrete blocks, and he has any interest in dating, he'll ask.

He might not, and the reason might have nothing to do with you (like his parents have told him he can't go out until he brings his grades up, or he doesn't want to ask anyone out until he isn't broke, or...). Still, he might - and in the meantime, you're getting to know him better, a good thing. Good luck!

Answer 3

when she says you to should hook up tell him that that would be sweet but don't go over board be cool and just look him in the eye and say If your free Id like to catch a movie burger or what ever , I mean your not asking for his car or his life your just asking to spend a little time . If you hide away from the confrontation you lose out because he wont know you care and some other girl could move on him while you procrastinate girl go get the guy

Answer 4

I am sorry, but these questions get so unbearable at times. How the heck do other people care or figure this out. This is a junior high sort of question and in the scheme of things who really cares. There is war and starvation and geesh 911 happened five years ago today.
Your obcession with details of who likes who and who thinks what is such a waste of brain function.
Time to figure out what you think and be secure in who you are and stop the "he said, she said" thing. Life is so much more than this. It is childish to have such bantor. Stand up for who you are.
When som eone says someone likes you...you just respond casually........."cool" and then turn away and walk off, ignore it. If someone likes you enough they don't need to be using gossip.
Stop playing games in life, If you like someone tell them, if they like you enough then it is up to them to do something about it.
Pay more attention to who you want to be and do when you are older so that you arn't 30 yrs old living in a dump wondering who likes who.

Answer 5

Men are pretty simple creatures; usually the most direct thought is the one our minds. If you ask a boy something he will rarely give you an answer with any subtext or hidden meanings. Men can do that, but it is not how we normally think. Unfortunately for us that's how women think. It's all in the genes and our instincts.

Guys, especially teenagers, have a great fear of rejection. He hasn't asked you out yet because he either suffers this fear or he doesn't want to. If you are already friends then I am willing to bet it is more of the first than the later.

If you are sitting with John then ask him something simple, "Would you like to get together to study sometime?" If he says yes than you have a positive sign. If he says no then you have your answer.

I am 80% sure that he will say yes. Then when the two of you are alone, you could ask him something equally simple like, "Would you like to go out sometime?" If he really likes you and wants to be your boyfriend then he will be very pleased about going out with you, and make that clear. If he isn't interested then he will say so.

If you pop a simple question then the guy is going to give a simple response. If he takes time to do it then he is thinking about it. He may lie or he may have deeper meaning in his reply. If he gives you a quick answer then that will be what his true feelings are. Men need to change gears to think complex thoughts to develop a deeper meaning to their thoughts. Again it's all in the genes and the instincts of the species.

For more information on how your instincts can affect your dating life check our my answer for this question: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...

Simple ask John if he wants to go out with you. Do it in private so you won't embarrass him. If you give a quick simple question then he will be 90% likely to return with a direct simple answer, and that answer will be a reflection of his true thoughts and feelings. Most men will feel a little uncomfortable if a woman asks them out, but ALL men will be secretly relieved. The fear of rejection is pretty intense and hard to overcome.

Answer 6

Guys are shy....!!! Most of them have this rough tough i'm the stuff attitude but you are dealing with a shy scared young man on the inside. He is just as nervous and confused as you are. First of all, you need to politley ask your friend to cram it.... This fellow does not want to hear what your friend is thinking. He would much rather know what you are thinking. It is hard to be forward with guys... especially at a young age, so you, yourself, drop him an Email or a letter and ask him out!!! Let him know how YOU feel.. not your friends!!

Answer 7

If you really like him then you should let him now instead of sitting there playing games, b/c if you wait too long to see if he has an interest in him, he might get snatched by some other girl and you'll wish you took the chance when you had it

Answer 8

Just say, "yes, I think he's a great guy" and let it go at that. Honey, you are far from in love with anyone at your age and stage of maturity. You've got a long way to go. TAKE IT SLOW and meanwhile......study, study, study and get an education so a really great guy will want to be with a really great girl.

Answer 9

Plain and simple if you really like this guy you should tell him yourself (unless he has a girlfriend) you can ask you friends for advice, at the right moment if you can get him alone for a few minutes tell him then if you are comfortable another way to do it is to call him if you have his number.

Answer 10

When your friends say that you two should go out. Say "Set it up, I think he would be fun to go out with" or "Yeah, I thought that too but he hasn't asked me out yet" Good luck with your crush.

Answer 11

Basically you can actually talk to your friend about it because she can actually help you get him without getting embarassed. Let her know that you do like him and maybe she can talk to him and see how he feels about you without telling him that you like him. If she come back and tells you that he likes you then go for it but if he isn't feeling you then you don't have to worry about it anymore. Basically you need to do something about how you feel because if you don't say something then you will wonder what could have happened later on in life.