Ok, game on.....give us your best and worst love/dating stories....the good bad and ugly!!?

Question

Tell me your best stories about dating and "love"....good and bad......?
Man.... this whole dating thing is soooo crappy!! Either I end up falling head over heels, and then get hurt, or the dude falls for me, and I can't stand him...... Even when things are actually working out, the whole thing is nerve-wracking!!! The whole 'who-calls-who-after-how-many-days blah...blah...blah....'
I'm so sick of the cosmo rules!!

What are your most positive dating experiences....or your worst....or most embarrassing....or most down-right terrifying??
I need someone to lighten this whole stupid business up!!!

Answer 1

this guy called jacob i used to have the hugest crush on. at a karoke party he was casually putting his arm around me and bianca casually (he doesnt like bianca) and i got all excited and asked amy if i should ask him out and she was all 'if u want to then go for it' and my dad came to pick me up so i asked him out and he was like "what' and i dont even know if he likes me or not!! when we went ice skating in a big group he kept skating around the rink in a BIG BIG circle and went past me really close and was showing off without being obvious and was like fully staring at me when troy threw ice in my good eye. guys are too late!

thats probley not my worst but here goes nothing. i liked this guy called dylan (still do) and he liked me and was always flirting with me on the bus and i rejected him... then came around to liking him and by that time he had gotten a girlfriend called ebonie that i didn't know about and it was the last day of term and i had written a note up on the computer to put in his locker. cass asked stef who asked him and it was 250-something (she said the exact number) and i got lila to put it in there and it turned out to be thisreally hot guy who has a girlfriend but it also REALLY REALLY dumb and catches my bus! dylan found out and it was really funny. i also poured out my heart to him in an anonmyous email and he found out it was me!!!!
i was sitting next to my friend on the bus and sarah (behind us) was being annoying so i walked up (by myself) to the middle of the bus where dylan was sitting to sit on the seat behind him. i thought my friend was following me but she chickened out, realising that the seat i thought was vacent actually had bri sitting there! when i realised that i quickly got my bag and walked back to my seat and tripped over my bag! my friend was laughing so hard and i was almost crying but she made me see the funny side of it all and we were laughing so hard!! guys are soooooooooo hard but whatever thats life. lol

Answer 2

Okay, I'll be the positive one.

I have been seeing this guy since the beginning of August. We are really taking our time. So far we have only kissed. Regardless of our busy schedules. I know he is into me and I am soooo into him.

I'm happy to be taking it slow and not being intimate yet because it gives me a chance to not become too emotionally involved because like most woman once I give it up I'm gonna want him to stay.

But we've made it through one month and everything is beautiful. He has a busy schedule with work and school but every chance we get to see each other we make the time count. Like today he had time in between class and work and stopped by my job and we sat in the car and talked for an hour.

I still think that I may sabotage it like I do sometimes but I'm trying my best not to. I'm still in that getting to know you stage. Cause today when I saw him I wanted to slob him down but it was a simple kiss on the cheek...then I wondered if I should have kissed him like I wanted to....but all in all. We parted ways happy and I had to leave behind the doubt of thinking about what I could have done.

Don't give up on love it's out here. Be patient with yourself in finding it....maybe it has already found you.

Answer 3

I guess this falls under "terrifying"...

This was like, 6 or 7 years ago but is still creepy:
I was at a party and this guy who I was not attracted to kept bugging me for my number. I kept brushing it off but he wouldn't leave me alone so I did the cruel thing and gave him a fake phone number not thinking anything about it. The first three digits were my actual phone number, and the last four digits I scrambled up.
Imagine my surprise when he CALLED ME the next night...which means not only did he not understand that I didn't intend on ever speaking to him, but he also dialed every combination of numbers until he got it right.

I also went on one pity date with a guy who invited me into his apartment and he had a "Doll Room"...tons and tons of dolls staring at me from a million shelves. I left so quickly...it would have only been worse if it was all clowns. And not by much.

Answer 4

Oh boy I have a couple, I do not know how old you are, but try dating after 40!! One actually was when I was 15, my boyfriend wanted us to double date with his friend who I had never met, and I had to find the date. So naturally I chose my best friend who even then was I think 5'11 or so. This guy not only ended up being goofy as hell he was 5'2. She still brings it up and gives me hell about it! lol
Right after my divorce I started going to a 'Cheers' type bar every other Sat to play darts, something to just get the heck out there. There was this guy who I had a tremendous crush on for over a year there, handsome, owned his own business and had a sense of humor that matched no other. Sounds like the perfect guy eh? (he was with someone during this year) they split, I went in for the kill...went out a couple times, I had him over for dinner with plans on seducing him :) and at the age of 45 this man had NO clue how to kiss, how to touch a woman, and especially not how to f**k, may sound shallow, but I was so disgusted that was the end of that!! How that other woman, or even his ex wife could deal with it for that long is a mystery to me! Still a good friend per se ....some men are just better as friends lmao.

And hey, good luck to you...it is a jungle out there!

Answer 5

Ok, this was a few years ago. I was using a computer at the public library and was in a chat room. I was talking to some random guy and he suddenly started saying "I live in the same state as you" ...I wasn't very worried. Then he said "I"m in the same city as you" That worried me a bit more. Then he said "I'm at the library." I started freaking out at this point. Then he said, "I'm sitting at the computer next to you." I completely freaked and ran out of the library. I went home (which was only a few blocks away from the library) and tried to calm down. About 10 minutes later, the guy showed up at my front door to ask me out! I was really concerned that this psycho knew where I lived, but I secretly thought it was cool that I had my first stalker.

Answer 6

ok jenny,
I once had this blind date with this guy who met me at a coffee place at night. he was a good 380 pounds looked like Orson Wells he was wearing a three piece suit and a cape...yes a cape. He proceeded to tell me how he had a hundred or so patents to his credits for various different inventions,then told me how his old girl friend used to set him up with multiple sex parteners and was that something I thought that I could do?....I ended the "date" in an hour stating that I was just there to meet him and that purhaps we could hook up another time (the BS you give a stranger to escape) . After his disapointment he brought me to his car where he pulled out a grocery bag and in it was chocolate in the form of a nestly crunch bar, wine in the form of Riunite rose', a plastic rose and a pair of black fish net stockings...I laughed so hard I though I was on candid camera. Then he told me.."don't get spoiled from this because I just lost my job and I can't by you any thing else"....

Answer 7

2 yrs ago I met the guy of my dreams, Adam SanMiguel. Well I went 2 mexico & when I came back, he told one of my friend's that he had a crush on me. So 2 weeks or so later, we went out. There was an 8 grade trip (which we both went). We spend those 2 days together. Not ALL the time, but yeah most. Anyway, in April, (a few days after the trip) we went to my friend's sweet 15. We were having such a blast. Well this guy was smoking & Adam was like "will you get mad if I smoke?" I told him yes (I can't stand people that smoke). So just 2 play around he did, but barely. I got mad. So I just kinda of ignore him, then Godiet (my best guy friend (back then)) asked me 2 dance so I did. Adam got mad and broke up w/ me. So days later I was really sad, but he asked me out again. Well a month later we broke up again. I found out that he was going to Florida & not coming back, so I just freaked & told him that I liked another guy (yeah I was stupid). Well he did leave to Florida w/o saying good-bye. I waited 10 months 2 hear from him. I tried everything 2 call him on his birthday, whatever, but nope, so I kinda moved on. I dated other guys but nope, I didn't feel anything towards them. So my last boyfriend was in July. I totally gave up on love. I thought to myself that my love would come when I least expect it. Well August 28, (15 months since the last time I saw him)guess who I saw... Adam. At first we didn't speak (mostly b/c I couldn't). But then I got courage & talked 2 him. I was willing (at that point) to fight for him (b/c it was my fault). But I found out that he likes this other girl. So when u really like someone you want them 2 b happy, rite? So that's that, I'm backing up now, I wish him the best of luck. I love him, and I will always love him. But good luck.

Answer 8

I dated one girl who was gorgeous an easy 10. Absolutely flawless except that she thought she was repulsive and couldn't stand her own image. Then a crazy girl, totaly average looking who cried after sex and moved to Japan after a couple of weeks. The best was when I dated this hot Italian girl and took her to a nice restaurant (dinner train) since we had a table to ourselves and were about 40 years younger than everyone else people kept asking me if I was famous. She was impressed

Answer 9

i swear what im gonna tell you is true. just changing names
here we go...
my firned 'sarah' had a crush on 'mike'. they never did anytihng, until, mike got himslef a girlfiend. made sarah so jealous she put her feelings on the line and mike and sarah secretly hooked up behind mikes girlfriends back. mike told me his thing and said he never trusted sarah enough to drop his girl. mike was ok with me if i was involved with sarah too, to test her. im like hey why not.
1 month later, me, sarah, and her friend 'jasmne' had a party at my house and we all hooked up, one after the other - i was very drunk. cos i new this would destroy mike and sarahs thing. i kept it silent and so did sarah. didnt matter, mike had plans to end his secret fling with sarah and trust me, it would not end well.
its becuase we are all friends and in our group, we interdated, problem is once you do and you break up, its difficult for the girls to move on. cos sarah had a crush, she would leave our group if they broke up.
a month later the whole group came to my house for another party. sarah gave mike an untimatum to commit, in which mike held off, then in which mike found out through a mutual friend that sarah had a 4way sex thing that week - no ****!
later, they both went online where sarah denied a whole shebang of hooking up wiht other people which mike new she was lying to but, he never let her know he knew.
after that, sarah left, i left, friendship group broke down, mike hates sarah for lying, sarah misses everyone i still see everyone including them.

the lesson in all this. dont be afraid to follow your heart, even if they're your frineds, but lies, deciete and secrets kill everything.
looking back i wouldnt change a thing, its things like these that you learn from. note - that story was the nice cutdown version. real version is a daisy but tooo long! - dave

Answer 10

My experience leads me to say-stop being embarrassed! You're human. We're all thinking similar things whether we say them out loud or not. You want to be yourself around whomever you're going to be with...so be yourself from the get go.
One of my most special friends said 'you've never really made it in a relationship until you can fart openly at the dinner table.'
So be honest with yourself and with your potential partners!