there is this boy at school who is so hot. i have liked him for 2 years now and i do not no if i should ask him out or not. i am very shy and so is he and i do not want to make a fool of myself. i mean he is very very very hott. and there is this guy who likes me that gets in my way when ever i go around the guy i like. what should i do? HELP PLEASE!!!!!!!!
2006-09-11 12:25:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell the other guy politely that you like him, but are not interested on him that way. That way, he won't get in the way of the other guy. Good Luck! <3
2006-09-11 12:30:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok i dont think you should ask him out just because hes super hott or w/e but i think you should really get to know him first and flirt with him because trust me i know from experiance that IT WORKS!! If you already know him well than just talk to him and dont let the guy who likes you get in the way but do remember hes in the same position as u are. He wants you while you want someone else while the guy you like might also want someone else. Tell the guy who likes you to not follow you around because then you will for sure not like him. maybe he'll get scared and stop bugging you. lol.
2006-09-11 19:30:59 · answer #2 · answered by marrrr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gather up your courage and just ask him out! One of two things can happen;
1. He says yes and you are excited beyond your wildest dreams.
2. He says no and you are crushed. Now if this happens, look on the bright side. He might still be cute, but it will allow you to get over your infatuation with him and see other possible hot guys you did not notice before. 2 years is long enough to have a secret crush.
Or you could keep things the way they are. If you feel not ready to date yet and this guy makes your day, no harm in admiring from a distance until you are ready. The best of luck. :)
2006-09-11 19:30:58 · answer #3 · answered by yowhatsup2day 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always think with a question like this you already know the answer you want you just need confirmation that it is the right one!
Well there is no right answer.
Are you prepared for ANYTHING that might happen?
Do you think being hot will also make him a nice guy or interesting or funny? Do any of those things matter to you?
Take the leap but cushion the landing with really knowing what you want from this person and not being disappointed with the results.
2006-09-11 19:32:14 · answer #4 · answered by Queen Fromage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask the guy that you like to a nice movie with friends or make a conversation. if you do not try it you will regret it with the what if question. i have been in your shoes but my story is a little bit different: how a guy was about to ask me to homecoming dance and i just ran away from him even though i liked him. i thought of what could of happened for the next 2 years of HS. forget the other guy who likes you and tell him how you honestly feel about him then focus on the guy that you like.
2006-09-11 19:31:31 · answer #5 · answered by icycrissy27blue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about asking anybody 'out' and into a relationship! -- Just ask 'em if he wants to hang out, goto a party, a movie, if your friends with him ask him if he wants to with you to a family birthday or someshit, anything to put the time in, ask him to do things and if he doesnt realize you want to spend time with him knock him out and hand cuff him to your bed ...and well do what you will from there. (i DO NOT reccomend the whole ask a friend to ask him out for you; thats happened to me and i hate it be real, BE YOU, and if he doesnt pick up what ya drop...run with it girl and find some one whos hot and likes you for you)
some one posted
"this is why love stinks---you must wait to be CHOSEN by the male" --- don't listen to that crap,
if you like someone don't wimp out cause your a girl -- be aggressive, take the risk; don't expect to live life without scars or embarassments, if you do you won't have any funny stories for your grandkids!
2006-09-11 19:30:27 · answer #6 · answered by trapeface 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first tell that other guy that you are sorry but that he NEEDS to back off then you can go up to your crush and ask him ........ it wouldn't really matter on whatever will happen i mean if it turns out that he is not so nice then move on..
don't let this feeling stay with you forever,
2006-09-11 19:29:52 · answer #7 · answered by jj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well assuming your in high school, ask him out. youre only there for another year or two anyway. have some fun. your both off to college soon and youll never see eachother again, so go for it
2006-09-11 19:28:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's shy and you're shy somebody has to make the first move..........I think you should ask him out. Whats to lose besides not knowing?
2006-09-11 19:28:40 · answer #9 · answered by d-rock 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him how u feel but dont go putting your heart all out there maybe just talking to him and getting to know him will lead to the best
2006-09-11 19:32:59 · answer #10 · answered by BOSS LADY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋