I really fancy this guy and we have met a few times (nothing serious), but haven't seen each other for ages! then out of the blue we started flirting with each other on email & texts - stuff got really hot. We've also chatted on the phone for a solid 2 months! (nothing physical has happened)..
Then he went on holiday - and since he's been back he text once to say hi, and that was it!!! what's he playing at? has he lost interest? please help!
2006-09-11 11:35:52 · 18 answers · asked by happy soul 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know that this question is for the guys, but I would advise you not to have sex with him; as far as you know, he could already be involved with someone else. Don't want to make you sad, but he probably had another woman in his life during the time that he was "kickin it" with you. Please be careful because I see the red flag waving; it's up to you to see it too.
2006-09-11 11:44:06 · answer #1 · answered by JEFFAVEGRL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might be that he has lost interest or he has found someone.it might be that he was waiting for you to make a move this might sound awkward but hey sometimes if u are a woman and you want your man jus tell him and see how it goes you have nothing to lose anyway, if something was jus meant to be it will jus be. when u like someone make sure that you strike that chance no matter what......so now what u have to do is this; try to send him a flirt message to get him back into the picture and see how he responds. if he has not found someone the responce will tell how he has changed from the time you used to best text mates. Ask him about his holiday and go from there.......i think this will help
Keep it real........
2006-09-11 18:47:47 · answer #2 · answered by The Love Hormone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Willing to bet he went on his vacation with someone he is now seeing or met someone there. If he responds, keep in limited contact and see if he gets back on board with you. Even if he is seeing someone else right now, it has only been for a short time and things change after the Romeo and Juliet thing wears off a little. Don't be afraid to let him know you'd like to see him sometime but don't let him know you're trying to figure him out. That will only breed more games.
2006-09-11 18:48:09 · answer #3 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy my question to you is, what was stopping you and him meeting up during the flirting sessions? He was probably involved with someone cos most guys who were flirting via e-mail and text would want to meet up and take it further? Best advice is to ask him but don't jump into bed with him too soon, make him beg for your body.
2006-09-11 18:52:16 · answer #4 · answered by leonard m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably was lonely at that point in time and is not presently. However, he might soon send you a text when he feels he needs company or a chat.
2006-09-12 14:25:01 · answer #5 · answered by Brains7733 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having just returned from a holiday, it may be that he's busy catching up on work/studies. Don't worry without reason. E-mail him and test the waters.
2006-09-11 18:39:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
interest lost, maybe had a holiday hook up but then again it could be that dull settling back in feeling and will snap back to his old life after a week or 2.
2006-09-11 18:38:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He hasn't necessarily lost interest, but might have different expectations of your online relationship than you. I would ask him out straight if he wants to take it further. We men are simple creatures and like simple questions.
2006-09-11 18:38:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like this boy then you should make it clear that do have feelings towards him and if just wants to be friends at least you know where you stand keep you head up cheer up life supposed to be fun
2006-09-12 04:40:12 · answer #9 · answered by chilly b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his not interested with you ok! just find someone else because like what you said you both flirting right! it's mean their's no serious relationship going on..............and don't be affected ok cheer up and find someone that you think his serious with you ok! godbless
2006-09-11 23:51:16 · answer #10 · answered by stephenking28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋