what am i supposed to do.... im 19 and she is turnin 18.. please help im i dont know what to do... please
2006-09-11 11:15:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
it just happened we didnt plan on it... and i love my gf and i dont wanna kill the baby.... im a man about it and i want her to give it to someone who wants it..... and if she wants to keep it then we will..
2006-09-11 11:25:05 · update #1
and we both got checked up and we are clean from stds
2006-09-11 11:26:41 · update #2
u need to decide if you two want to keep the baby or not you could always give it up for adoption there are million of people out there that can't have children and would love to be parents
2006-09-11 11:19:00 · answer #1 · answered by daydreambeliever0000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it is probably a shock for you, but i can promise you that you will really love your baby and when it comes you will wonder what you ever did without it. It will take sometime to get used to but as you watch your girlfriend grow her tummy and go to the ultrasounds and see your baby on the screen you will really love the idea. I fell pregnant when i was 19 and at first my boyfriend was the exact same. He kinda flipped out abit and got scared. By the time he was happy and excited about it.. it was the other way around. I started freaking out and didnt know what to do. It was pretty scary. But now our boy is the best thing that has ever happened to us! We loved him completely as soon as we saw him. It is such an amazing thing to share with somebody, going through the pregnancy.. the ups and downs.. the morning sickness.. watching her tummy grow and knowing that it is part of both of you in there. Being there with her through the labour and the birth. It really is a great life experience and you will be very glad that you had this baby when you get used to the idea. I can guarantee you. I really hope everything works out and you come around to the idea. Its not the end of your life it is the beginning of a new one that you and your girlfriend can share together. Good luck with everything!
2006-09-11 20:54:22 · answer #2 · answered by Jordy[♥] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dont panic first of all. I am the same age as your girlfriend and my boyfriend is the same age as you. Just keep in mind that you have created a baby, something that is yours. Now, u must comfort your girl and be there for her through every moment. Just remember, there are gonna be moments when she calls you names and has attitude for no reason, she going through many changes. Give her compliments and make her feel sexy and have lots of sex trust me you'll enjoy it, try new positions too and fingerbang her, lots of foreplay. anyways,,,,,but you also need to remember that this is gonna be a lifetime responsibility and you need to start planning now. I mean job, insurance, pampers, formula, school, daycare all of that!!! You'll be fine. but most of all show that baby that you love him/her. Trust me you'll have support. Your whole attitude will change maybe not right when she is born but gradually you will grow up. Your girlfriend will change drastically once the baby is born, because it's mother's instinct. You'll have ups and downs trust me, but as long as you remember whats important and whats your motivation, you guys will be fine. I just had my baby four months ago so its still new to us but we are a family. That also what u have to remember, you have a family to support.
2006-09-11 18:27:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a really good talk about it, in the end its both your and her desicion, you have to be sure that you a are finacially stable to support a child and also that your relasionship is strong and can handle the responsibility, there is nothing wrong with abortion and adoption if neither of you are capable.
2006-09-11 18:25:16 · answer #4 · answered by Theresa M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow an egg mcmuffin, nice way to treat someone who just killed their child.
Do anything BUT that.
Talk about it with her and her parents after she tells them. Ask her if she wants to keep the baby or give it away. If she wants it then congragulations, if not then you are going to have way more tough stuff than this to be thinking about
2006-09-11 18:20:10 · answer #5 · answered by jessica 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give that baby up for adoption. Don't struggle, it would not be good for the both of you and the child. Next time use protection.
2006-09-11 18:52:17 · answer #6 · answered by corey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after checking out your other questions i think you have some issues with your sex life ..if you and your gf have all those sex diseases you don't need to have a baby..have an abortion and stop having unprotected sex...that is just plain STUPID..grow up and act like a MAN..take responsibility for your life and your actions
2006-09-11 18:22:19 · answer #7 · answered by va8326 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a man and tell that you'll stand by her and take care of the baby that you created. It's rediculous to whine that she's pregnant when you didn't take precautions. Grow up!
2006-09-11 18:18:32 · answer #8 · answered by Bobbie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I no this isn't the best time to say this but because your 19 and she isn't 18 officially that's illegal.
2006-09-11 18:18:39 · answer #9 · answered by fb0581 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the parents and get married... that usually works out... get a job!! dont spend a penny of the money u earn in the next eight months.... the baby needs to eat too!
2006-09-11 18:17:45 · answer #10 · answered by rjekqlw 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋