...for instance you are in a bar or club with your girlfriends and all of a sudden, some guy who is not even your type comes up to you and asks if he could get to know you. how will you say that you are not really interested in the subtlest and sweetest way?
2006-09-11 10:59:18 · 22 answers · asked by strawberry_sundae 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try NOT 2 B subtle & sweet. They will never get the picture.
B honest & sure about U're feelings 2 him & tell him, U're not
interested. U don't have 2 B mean about it, just say, I'm not
interested. U don't owe him any explanation! Especially if it is
in a bar or a club. I used 2 feel all bad like U do, but now, it's just
the truth! I& I'm not mean about it, I have gotten better responses
this way, than being all timid about it. I think they respect U more.
U'll get the hang of it, it comes w/age & experience
Smooches, Milkshake
2006-09-11 11:09:01 · answer #1 · answered by MILKSHAKE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say your a lesbisn, always works, i was on holiday with my friends and a guy kept cumin over to me i was tryin 2 be nice but he wouldnt take the hint that i didnt like him then my friend went up and said sumthin 2 him, and i was like how did you get him 2 go, and she said sorry i just told him you were a lesbian, he wont bother you again, it worked! i was so happy but then i started kissing another guy and hecamr back so she went over again and said she is a lesbian but she kisses guys and he accepted that and left, then we all done it to the spanish 2 get rid of them and it worked they all thought the four of us were gay, it not only gets rid of them but makes the night funny as well. try it hunni ! xx
2006-09-11 11:06:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to be subtle or sweet with some guy coming onto you in a bar. Not now, not interested, huh uh, nope, not tonight...you pick one.
2006-09-11 11:02:18 · answer #3 · answered by beez 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could say that it is very nice of him to ask, but that the timing is wrong for you at present, can you take a rain check?
2006-09-12 04:35:28 · answer #4 · answered by Taliesin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can easily say "I'm not available to date right now" or you can just tell him that you aren't interested in men and to leave you the hell alone!
2006-09-11 11:02:27 · answer #5 · answered by sugarapple25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say "While I find your attention flattering, I'm only here enjoy the company of my friends."
Turn way from him and resume talking to your friends.
2006-09-11 11:06:53 · answer #6 · answered by Jeff W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them as you may have to get rude in the long run!!!
2006-09-11 11:02:06 · answer #7 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have 5 simple words, I'll call you next week
2006-09-11 11:01:33 · answer #8 · answered by mellor3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sniff your armpits and and say
"I knew it was a mistake to not wash this week"
Scratch your fanny and say
"Bl00dy Hell....... How long is this bout going to last for?"
2006-09-11 11:03:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drink in the face all ways works....
2006-09-11 11:01:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋