I just don't know if I should or can wait anymore to have sex. Doesn't God reward us when we wait until marriage?
2006-09-11 10:55:57 · 34 answers · asked by Mr. Shlutneyski 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
God doesn't reward you with a wife. he blesses you with a wife. i wouldn't know I'm only 16 but I'm for sure that there is a wife already picked by God for me. wither it is my girlfriend now i have no clue yet. also you aren't a wild animal you can control your hormones. be patient God will bless you. he does in a sense reward you because you know that your wife will be your first. it will be better. again i don't know i haven't had sex either so hey just pray God will provide.
2006-09-11 11:28:32 · answer #1 · answered by Brandon E 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go get yourself a wife. It doesn't work anymore like it did with Adam, God's not going to knock you out, you wake up and there be a woman there waiting for you. You're responsible for the effort of finding a mate. Does God reward you for waiting until marriage, not really. With a few exceptions you're not rewarded for keeping God's commandments, it's what you're simply supposed to do. It's like the idea that the government should reward you for having not killed anyone. The reward, is the lack of negative consequences that follow breaking a commandment, not something above and beyond that.
2006-09-11 11:01:11 · answer #2 · answered by westfallwatergardens 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You are not wrong for waiting for sex. It will only get you in trouble my brother. Sex is overrated! Most of these women out here have had all kinds of sex and they would think of you as nerd. But you are not a nerd just a wonderfully devoted and intellegent individual who has lost his way.
Instead of sex, go for a Ph.D. Make your mark on the world by contributing to the relief of hunger or war or proverty. A knut is just a knut. One day you shall meet your bride. Then you shall raise a family and the meaning of life will unfold before you. Lots of luck!
2006-09-11 11:08:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first step Is to know God
First seek the kingdom of God and all his righteousness and all these things shall be added unto you.(note this Is the word of God)believe me I have made the mistake of being anxious and my life was terrible and I had a daughter that I cant see.
My x-wife was a minister so I speak from experiance,trully with all your heart seek the Lord with all and I mean all your heart and all these things will be added unto you,I pray This for you right now,be blessed.In Jesus name
2006-09-11 11:03:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all you're looking for a wife the completely wrong way, and have the wrong motivating factors for having one. I don't know ANY woman who is going to marry you just because you want to have sex. A marriage is NOT about sex. It is about love, commitment, and respect. None of which are you showing through wanting only sex from a woman. Believe me, you need much more time to mature before marrying. And God is probably saving you from a divorce and one woman from a very unhappy future. Just wait on God, and be patient, and learn what marriage is truly about.
2006-09-11 11:00:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
1) be the person you want to marry
2) our reward for waiting does not come from god
2006-09-12 05:11:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's weird... Sex is great until you get married... It's not so great (still good for the most part) once you're married. Maybe I should have waited... I think not having any experience might have made the "married sex life" better.
2006-09-11 11:05:48 · answer #7 · answered by ahzie99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God has blessed us with the fact that anyone can get someone. Some of us have to put out more of an effort than others in this search.
2006-09-11 11:15:39 · answer #8 · answered by BURGIN24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for some people it is better to at least experience sex with a few people so you know what you will be happy with your whole life. i guess you dont know what your are or are not missing out on, but sex is a big part of marriage. I would take it slow no matter what you do, but I always think you should have a test drive and also live together before marriage so you know that it is what you want FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE.
2006-09-11 10:59:18 · answer #9 · answered by adrixia 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Do you honestly think you will not go to heaven if you have sex?? Do you think God will punish you if you do have sex? God loves us unconditionally...God forgives us ALWAYS! Go out and get laid and don't worry so much about getting a wife. First things first!
2006-09-11 11:04:54 · answer #10 · answered by auntcookie84 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋