We both make fun of eachother. I told him Im really self-concious about my weight but he still says Im fat sometimes but hes just playin around and I dont care anymore. Now I know we're just messing around. Earlier I was popping his back and his mom said "Do you know why his back hurts?" and jokingly I said because hes getting bigger. Now he is pissed off at me. I asked him what was wrong and he told me "go back to what you were doing" but he was very harsh about it. He does that sometimes now. He can do it but I cant. How can I deal with this? When I try to talk to him about it he bites my head off.
2006-09-11 10:49:13 · 15 answers · asked by Chardonnay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aww, well first its gross you where poping his back and are willing to share that moment with the world... I think its awesome you can joke around like that but be careful words hurt even if you think its fun... Sound like he is aware of himslef gaining a few pounds...Let him cool down a bit then give him a rub down tell him how sexy you think he is...Make him feel good then tell him to stop being a baby you love him the way he is and you will love him the way he will be tomorrow
2006-09-11 10:55:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he got upset because you took your insult game and used it in front of his mother. guys usually have things that you talk about or joke about when you are together but when other people are around these things are off limits. maybe you should apologise or ask him if you hurt his feelings and then you guys should stop this game. it's obviously not fun anymore and someone is going to get hurt. good luck.
2006-09-11 10:55:15 · answer #2 · answered by burn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typical man. Whats good for you is not good for him.hahaha.Tell him if thats how hes going to act,then he cant joke with you anymore about anything,unless it pertains to something that has nothing to do with what you look like. And you will do the same for him.If he doesnt stop saying what he says to you,then i think you should tell him to grow up,or get out.
2006-09-11 10:53:21 · answer #3 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-07 03:12:07 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he only says mean things to you, you said something around his family and now he is embrassed. When you bring more people into the picture, they are able to pass judgement.
2006-09-11 10:51:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the two of you should stop making insulting jokes to each other.
2006-09-11 10:51:06 · answer #6 · answered by pegasus_1174 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need to go with it. stop with the comments even if you are just joking around. you need to take his feelings into consideration, even if he is taking it the wrong way. he may understand it as something totally different than you wanted to imply.
2006-09-11 10:51:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys are just like that,what is good for the goose isn't always good for the gander if you know what i mean.just ignore him and he will get over it.
2006-09-11 10:54:09 · answer #8 · answered by oceanwvs2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u shouldn't joke with him anymore most men r like that
2006-09-11 10:57:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to gently talk to him.
maybe wait a bit and not try to talk right after the fight.
2006-09-11 10:51:41 · answer #10 · answered by N/A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋