I have been with my boyfriend three months. I think he is cheating on me. He always sounds weird when I call but he sounds fine when he calls. We live in different towns and have different schedules completly. We rarely get to see each other. I feel bad but think its better if we were just friends. What is the best way to tell him this hurting him too badly. Thanks.
2006-09-11 10:45:41 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Were 15 we cant drive yet
2006-09-11 10:56:30 · update #1
Just tell him that you don't believe that the relationship is working out. Tell him that you enjoy talking to him as a friend but feel that there is no opportunity or reason for you to be more than that.
Good luck :)
2006-09-11 11:41:09 · answer #1 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a boyfriend you rarely see and lives in a different town? Don't waste your time because it will never work out. Find a guy you can see more often and hang out and be friends. Most likely this boyfriend you have is seeing a girl that lives in the same town. That is just the way it is. Long distance relationships usually don't work out unless the couple previously lived together and then had to move away from each other for a while.
Find a better guy.
2006-09-11 10:48:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you could ask him why he seems different when you call versus when he calls? It's hard to make a relationship of this nature work, especially if you're not sure you can trust him.
Perhaps say this: "I don't want to hurt you but I sense there is something wrong. I hope I am wrong but I think you may be cheating on me. Are you?"
If he denies cheating on you then you have to decide if you believe him or not. I think that when trust is gone then there is little hope for a relationship to survive.
I wish you all the best...
2006-09-11 10:53:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is cheating it will not hurt him at all. I suggest you say you are to busy to be in a relationship right now. Tell him we live far apart and never get to see each other. Tell him it is not fair for the both of you, and that you would like to be good friends.
2006-09-11 10:47:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, try to see if he is indeed cheating on you. Be upfront and direct, just ask him and promise him not to get angry. Then if the unfortunate thing were to happen, then you should just say that you are not appreciative of what he has done regarding to him cheating on him and that you just want to be friends for now on.
2006-09-11 10:48:33 · answer #5 · answered by voice_of_reason 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him. He may feel the same way. It is difficult having a long distance relationship, Even if it is only a town away.
2006-09-11 10:48:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah seperate. I think he would be relieved. Sounds like being friends would be a better idea. You never know, maybe you will get back together in the future.
2006-09-11 10:48:33 · answer #7 · answered by uranium9v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not get hurt or if he does then tell him that it is for the best. You should say that you hada great time and all but that things arent working out
2006-09-11 10:48:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he has your permission to cheat, but only he gives you the same option. He will be unable to reject the offer. The anticipation of guilt-free joy will offset any hurt feelings.
2006-09-11 10:55:20 · answer #9 · answered by Grist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him. In fact, why call him back at all? He lives too far away, and his cheatin' heart is cheatin' on YOU!!!!! Just let it drop. If he really cares, let him call you back. Just don't call him. On second thought..
Get a dog. They're great, and won't cheat on you, and then you'll realize what true gratitude, loyalty and love are all about.
2006-09-11 10:49:43 · answer #10 · answered by pbuchta 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋