I know at nursery its just mostly play as they are only three, but my sons concerntrations levels are really low and im worried he's not going to pick things up as quickly as others. Any tips?
2006-09-11 10:43:05 · 29 answers · asked by fairylandk 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
No offence simon k, but your not very helpful by saying that 'your child doesn't have that problem' It actually makes me feel worse. So if you want to brag aout your child and try and put other parents and children down, then go elsewhere. Or yes! GROW UP!!!!!!
2006-09-11 10:51:19 · update #1
give him a chance. children learn faster from one another
2006-09-11 10:45:13 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Understood 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. I know that is easy to say and hard to do but honestly he will be fine. My son started nursery last year and is now in reception. I was really worried about his ability to interact with the other kids as he had always played on his own but the teachers were great and soon he was making loads of little friends. When he starts you can discuss your concerns with the teacher and he/she will keep an eye on him. Don't forget that he is in a new enviroment with lots of kids and there are loads of activities for them to do. I think you will be surprised at how different he is in school, and be reassured the teacher will not let him fall behind and you will always be the first to know if the teacher thinks you could do some activities at home to encourage him.
Try to enjoy this time as I am sure your little boy will.
2006-09-11 19:54:25 · answer #2 · answered by Emma-Kate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My son was the same, his concentration only lasted 5 minutes when he started nursery and I was worried as for when he was to start school, so I printed out in big letters small words, his name, colors etc and put them all around the house. We played games that would teach him basic things, the games were all day through but not lasting any more than 5 minutes. By the time he started school, he was able to write 3 letter words, recognise numbers, his name etc.. He's now 11 and although his concentration still below average, he is a top student.
Whatever you do, never compare or allow anyone to do so against other children, which seems to be the trend between mothers during their coffee mornings!
2006-09-11 10:59:32 · answer #3 · answered by damari_8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nursery should be a fun place with lots of sticking, gluing, cutting, play dough and heaps of messy play. Not to mention bikes, trains and DIGGERS!
A good nursery should not be too structured for three year olds! Its all about play and leaving Mum for the first time.
We all feel the same way about our children. We worry no matter what. Thats what Mothers are for! The teacher and Nursery Nurse will EXPECT many children to have a low concentration span! They are only 3! Please do not worry he will love it and you can have a well deserved sit down.
I am a mum and a Nursery Nurse
2006-09-14 23:14:29 · answer #4 · answered by Nicola H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it some children have short concentration spans but it doesnt mean he wont pick things up easily. At nursery the emphasis is on play so he should be just fine. If you are really worried you may want to consider not ptting him in nursery and keeping him at home. My little boy hated nursery so I took him out, he has just started school and now loves it that extra year with me did him the world of good. Good luck
2006-09-14 08:23:21 · answer #5 · answered by zephs mummy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most kids are like that, the Nursery staff are used to it. Also the interaction with the other kids makes their concentration a little better. When my son started Nursery I felt the same but he was great. They tell me he is a very quiet well behaved little boy. News to me - disruptive noisy inability to behave is how he is at home. Apparently in Nursery he is a dream!! He is 2 and a half. Don't worry he will love it!
2006-09-11 22:00:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a mom of two boys,10 and 3, and a former preschool teacher I can tell you that your son will do just fine. The ones that didn't seem to pick it up a quick as the others more than make up for it. It seemed like they were observing the other children to make sure they got it right.
Your son will do just fine. Enjoy the young child, soon enough he will be a teenager.
2006-09-11 13:01:56 · answer #7 · answered by Maypearl97 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have 4 kids they are all different and yes u worry especially with the first that they are not bright enough or wont concentrate enough but if u take an active roll in their education they will be OK the teachers will let u know if they pick up on any problems and will advise u how to help.but as your child grows as long as u carry on taking an interest in what they do they should do fine so i shouldn't worry just yet let him have time to settle and regularly communicate with your child's teacher ooh by the way my two teenage girls are both at grammar and my 8&9 year old boys are both doing fine so i hope i got it right
2006-09-11 12:19:28 · answer #8 · answered by norman m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK. Boys are by nature slower than girls in all ways (yes there will ALWAYS be exceptions to this for any one who wishes to contradict me).
I am speaking as a mother of three boys, and one girl, having worked with children for the last 18 years.
Nursery's and pre-schools are well used to dealing with children at different stages of development.
The staff will help your son to settle in, and find his own interests. So what if his concentration span is short, I bet at least 75% of the boys there will have a similar problem, and their mums will have been as concerned as you are.
Speak with any nursery, or infant teacher they should confirm this. If the staff have any real cause for concern about your son they will discuss it with you, however in all probability he will do absolutely fine.
Stop worrying, and let him see mummy happy at the new adventure he is setting out on.
2006-09-11 11:03:23 · answer #9 · answered by tizzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter just started nursery school today and the parents were allowed to stay. The teachers are really amazing and really know how to connect with the children. I think nursery school teachers really understand that they are three and concentration and learning can be limited at times. Try not to worry - I think he will be in good hands and the teachers will really help him excel.
2006-09-11 10:56:16 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will love nursery it has no pressures for learning they learn through play! The best thing you can do is not to stress about it as he will pick up on it. You will be amazed at how he will grow in his communication speech and development in a short space of time. Good Luck and i wish your son the best first day ever!
2006-09-11 19:30:48 · answer #11 · answered by Nicky T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋