Supposed there's this someone so close to you...
And it's obvious he's treating you very special..
or.. somewhat special.
1. Would you ask what's it with you two?
2. or assume though you know that it's very obvious?
3. or just keep quiet about it and enjoy the ride?
2006-09-11 10:40:15 · 42 answers · asked by strawberry_sundae 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
never assume you could get hurt, never keep things bottled up cos it will bug you for a long time trust me i no always ask at least you know where you stand:)
good luck
jyoti mehta
2006-09-11 10:43:39 · answer #1 · answered by jyoti mehta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless your really want to know just ask but never assume. I would just keep quiet and enjoy the ride! Good luck
2006-09-11 10:52:47 · answer #2 · answered by valentinegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't assume anything. Always rely on facts.
Fact#1: He is treating you special.
Fact#2: He is this "someone so close to you"
Fact#3: You are curious as to what's up.
Fact#4: You don't want to stop this pleasant ride.
Its not inappropriate to share these facts with him. See what his version of the facts are.
2006-09-11 10:48:48 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being Honest and up front can never hurt anyone.
"I can assume" your enjoying this companionship.
The answer is YES! ask, hint, flirt, you have declared here, IT is obvious. But stay sweet. Most guys that are really sincere get shy because they have ideas (dreams) on their minds and are guilty. Try keeping it tender and even childish.
2006-09-11 10:57:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had this kind of experience with a manager i used to work with. it was obvious to everyone that i was treated by him differently to the rest of the staff. everything i asked for i could have. a theory i tested often. now you are going to think that i am a bit of a b*tch but i opted for no 3. kept quite and just enjoyed the ride!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-11 10:47:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never assume...especially in this case communication with each other about what is going on will help develop and cement a relationship. To take no action at all may send a wrong signal.
2006-09-11 10:43:37 · answer #6 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you like him you might ask him out.If he give you a stupid look or says something like'No ****' then he is an *** and you slap him.or you could sit back and enjoy the ride but not for too long cause he might give up on you.or you could assume that you are going out and return the happiness.(prolly best one)
2006-09-11 10:43:25 · answer #7 · answered by lumpydonut21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep quiet and enjoy the ride.
2006-09-11 10:43:02 · answer #8 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely keep quiet and enjoy the ride as long as it will go on. Happy trails to you
2006-09-11 10:43:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assume makes an a s s out of u & me
2006-09-11 10:47:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To assume makes an *** out of U and ME.
Enjoy the ride; he'll eventually show his colors.
2006-09-11 10:43:09 · answer #11 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋