i have one girlfriend,,,but i didnt touch her ever,,,every time i scared,,,
we gone only 2-3 times for outside,,can i hold her hand in my hand,,,if i hold her hand in my hand... is she feel smthing odd ???,,,becoz she or me have no previous exp. of it ,,how i can start ??
2006-09-11 10:31:32 · 14 answers · asked by jimi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take it slow and do not rush anything!!! Holding hands is a great starting place!!!
2006-09-11 10:35:08 · answer #1 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you need to take things slow and there is nothing wrong with that. If there are feelings between the two of you then she shouldn't feel odd about holding your hand. Don't rush- good things come to those who wait. Make moves when it feels right.
When you feel you want to hold her hand go for it and if she holds yours back then you are ok. When you are close and feel you want to kiss her move in slowly and if she doesn't pull away then you're ok. Just remember if she is inexperienced and modest then she won't make any first moves and may even refrain out of principle but that's ok. Tell her how you feel and you want her to be comfortable no matter what.
2006-09-11 17:55:48 · answer #2 · answered by shosha_tiqo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg r u like twelve or sumthing. hold her hand, put ur hand on her back waist to show comfort. or make sure u shower and wash ur hands cos maybe she thinks ur dirty lol. the sooner u's know how u's feel abt each otehr the better, y wait till a cuple months down the line that u's arent suited wen u can just find out rite now.
2006-09-11 17:38:23 · answer #3 · answered by flyingmaniac81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before u hold her hand ask her if she will be comtorble if so she says yes than hold her hand maybe u can move to the next step !
2006-09-11 17:37:27 · answer #4 · answered by TO HOT FOR U !!! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be the man, take the lead, she will love that. You are both nervous. just hold her hand and try giving her a soft kiss on the lips. It will develop from there.
just take the lead, but don't come on too strong.
2006-09-11 17:34:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
how old are you?
for the most part you guys have to know each other well before taking the next step
2006-09-11 17:34:20 · answer #6 · answered by EVY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a good place to start only do what you are both comfortable with your prob not old enought to do anymore
2006-09-11 17:36:10 · answer #7 · answered by angel 36 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think..you should get more serious...to find out if she is comfortable with dating you.if she is hold her hand if you want to!maybe even make out wit her!
2006-09-11 17:34:44 · answer #8 · answered by dustybunny1343 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thick u need to just hold her hand i dont kown it fills odd i dont kown sorry
2006-09-11 17:34:48 · answer #9 · answered by ♥l.0.v.E♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to relax and do not rush her. She may be scared,
2006-09-11 17:33:58 · answer #10 · answered by red1967 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋