I think guys that like big girls, like them because they think they're easy... big girls have feelings too and are great loyal woman... so think about it guys. Where has dating a skinny, pretty woman gotten you? Divorced? Lonely? Think beyond the norm and you'll be suprised. It's hard being cute with a little extra meat on your bones... We loved to be loved and love to love back.
2006-09-11 10:28:23 · 19 answers · asked by Paige 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, I'm not talking about a 400 pound woman. I'm a size 18. I eat VERY healthy and I am VERY active. I don't spen 2 hours at the gym, but I can keep up with the rest of them. I people see a heavy person and think they are lazy. I am far from that... Any more thoughts? I am very friendly, I'm not a cling on (which I know guys hate) I have my own life... maybe too independent for you guys?
2006-09-11 11:43:48 · update #1
My saying is--- take me as I am !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-11 10:31:24 · answer #1 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well personaly I don't have that much against a woman with a bit of extra meat on her bones, but I also am looking for someone that is in a reasonable state of health that can and would be willing to keep up with me, and would join me on my adventures in life. Not to be mean or anything, but a woman around 400 pounds would never be able to keep up with me and a spectator in life is totally not what I want. Had that once. It was a total disaster. But, hey, if you want to give it a shot, look me up. I have nothing against it and will be glad to give you an even break. FYI... one lady that visited me for a week tried it and went from a sz 18 to a sz 16.....
2006-09-11 17:55:24 · answer #2 · answered by dread pirate lavenderbeard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not about skinny; guys like girls that put out.
Okay just kidding... Kind of.
Women like men that are rich and can buy them jewlery. Same difference.
These are generalizations of course. The reality is that fat women can find a good man just like a broke guy can score. It does happen, although chance of success is lower, meaning they have to try harder at meeting people to balance out the lower percentage of success.
Why not get on a diet and exercise? Aside from getting closer to the current cultural trend of what's sexy, it's also more healthy (I don't mean model on crack skinny, that's too much, I mean healthy average).
I was too skinny, 5'10" and about 145-150lbs. Women don't like skinny men, so instead of sitting around and complaining about Vin Diesel ruined it for me, I started working out and trying really hard (I'm a hard gainer, gaining muscle is harder than losing fat). I'm at 160 right now, my goal is 180. Most difficult thing I have attempted in my entire life, but I'm doing it.
2006-09-11 17:50:07 · answer #3 · answered by evil_clown_of_destruction 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't find skinny women that attractive. I HATE TO SEE RIB BONES. I would much rather be with a voluptuous full figured woman than a skinny self centered woman. Why is a woman's weight so important to some people? For me that takes a back seat to a good disposition
2006-09-11 17:38:52 · answer #4 · answered by computer illiterate 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
O' contrare, my little chickadee. Men, I repeat, men know how to appreciate a curvy woman. And why would you want to be "cute" when you can have true beauty? The greatest sex symbols of all time were not size 3. Marilyn Monroe, a perfect example of pure sexy, size 12.
2006-09-11 17:41:21 · answer #5 · answered by rikv77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll be very straight with you. I am not attracted to fat girls. It's not that fat girls are ugly because they are overweight, but it is a sign that they are over-indulgent in an area of their lives and chances are there are other examples of that trait elsewhere in their personalities. (I would like to say that I am anything but perfect, but I will be the first to tell you that I diligently try to moderate myself and like to date women who share that trait) I do, however, prefer girls with a little meat on them. There is nothing attractive to me about a girl who has their ribs sticking out or a girl with a 6 pack and arms bigger than mine for that matter. I like a little something to hold onto, though, you know???
2006-09-11 17:50:55 · answer #6 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To tell you the truth, most guys I have known have fallen for girls that are a little on the heavy side. They might have dated the skinny girls but they want to marry to bigger women. Whys that?
2006-09-11 17:31:04 · answer #7 · answered by stephanierudder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great point. Look at all the "perfect" Hollywood women with great bodies that get married. Even after they have kids, they get back in shape. But they also have the highest divorce rates.
2006-09-11 17:33:04 · answer #8 · answered by pegasus_1174 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all women are special in their own way, regardless of weight. the secret that most of them don't realize is that if they have no self confidence in themselves, men will tak advantage of them. i have seen it myself, where if you treat a slightly heavy woman nicely in some nightclub, your damn near assured of a good night of sex. it's up to the woman to stand up for themselves and make the right choice in how they present themselves...good luck!
i agree, some beautiful skinny women aren't worth the headache...but they know they can be selective also.
2006-09-11 17:41:32 · answer #9 · answered by City slicker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe some men like skeletons. I have some extra meat on me and my current boyfriend always tells me I am beautiful in his eyes.
2006-09-11 17:32:37 · answer #10 · answered by red1967 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have no problem dating a woman with curves its no problem. if they're easy to talk to that is a huge plus for me and a pretty face no matter what will always go a long way
2006-09-11 17:31:59 · answer #11 · answered by confusedude529 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋