Hi...
So. I have an awesome girlfriend. Infact, I'd easily stick my balls in a box, full of badgers and nails AND take a bullet to the face to express how much I love her.
BUT......she feels the need (much like my past relationship) to tell me when guys flirt or hit on her. She NEVER expresses any interest in them HOWEVER she always tells me when guys approach her. WHY?
Example Email Story: " This stupid annoying kid who thinks he's 'got game type of kid' andhis two friends are pissing me off and being annoying. Wanting me to come party with them, drink
beer, blah blah---- I am not interested just from person to person still not interested. I was being really cold and short. Them all picking up on it. I said get out. But then the kid says...
'why do you hate me?'
to which i blankly looked at him and said...
'i dont hate YOU it just happens to be that YOU remind ME EXACTLY of every other single person i HATE. "
Anywhoo, this made me jealous. Am I a baby?
2006-09-11 10:20:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the jealousy thing is totaly understandable, but don't blow it out of porportion. Just is just trying to show you that other men are interested in her but she is with you. She pretty much is just testin you to see how you feel about her....if you get jealous it a good thing...trusts me. I know that if I get a rise out of my man when I say things like that, it shows me that he does care about me and doesn't like the thought of another man even lookin or talkin to me.
2006-09-11 10:25:14 · answer #1 · answered by latina21_01ucf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kid girls like to talk if you haven't noticed either way your gonna hear about it don't be a baby just be OK with it
yeah women sometimes try to make us jealous but i don't think this is the case
it's a girl thing i guess but i know what you mean my ex did the same actually of them have i don't know but they just do no matter how old they get oh well see shrug it off no big deal
and it's OK to be jealous it's normal but don't be a phsyco just be calm and tell her it makes you jealous and ask to her to calm down about it OK well laterz
peace and good luk to ya...
2006-09-11 10:27:21 · answer #2 · answered by rm4real 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please - are you that clueless?
She is insecure. She gets an ego boost when men find her attractive, you or someone else. She's telling you so that you can also acknowledge her beauty and marvel at how many men find her attractive.
Just stop this childish behavior right now - you do trust her, right? Do you realize that this means that you can never stop trusting her no matter what she does?
Stop being jealous and just let it go.
FP
2006-09-11 10:28:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, shes the baby. You need to bluntly tell her what shes doing. Tell her "to stop tring to make you jeolous and stop it now"! Throw in something like "you know, when you say that kind of stuff you remind me of a 10 year old and thats a real turn off".
2006-09-11 10:24:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she wants to know that you're terriotorial and are willing to fight for her givin maybe one day you'll have competition or maybe she's just weird either way it goes you need to talk to her about and find out whats up if she's not willing to talkk to you then it's not worth your stress and you need to move one what kind of a relationship do you have without communication? Good Luck Best Wishes ;)
2006-09-11 10:27:51 · answer #5 · answered by Bri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you waiting for??? you want to ask her out. no longer doing so might want to be like sitting on undiscovered oil and basically letting it proceed to be undiscovered for this reason your no longer gathering any income. She for sure likes you. And if all fails, you a minimum of hav a sturdy pal. yet theres probably something there if she might want to continuously smile at you want that. also in case your between the surely ones there to help her, thats a really flattering ingredient and supplies sturdy possibilities. Ask her out before the information receives to her. bypass for it!!! best of success!!
2016-11-26 01:47:58 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not being a baby, you should tell her how you feel and discuss your feelings before things get out of hand. Your jealouses ways will get you in trouble,but can be controlled if handled in the right way.
2006-09-11 10:28:14 · answer #7 · answered by Wan R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be jealous. Shes telling you this so that you trust her. She obviously has nothing to hide. Take it as a compliment when guys hit on her..... it means you have a hot girlfriend.... and they obviously dont.
2006-09-11 10:23:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's doing it for one of two reasons:
1. She wants to make you jealous
2. She wants attention
(Of course, now that I think about it, it's probably both)
2006-09-11 10:23:24 · answer #9 · answered by Amanda 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hunni she's just letting u know girls either feel like u must protect them from those guys or she's flattered and wants to tell someone
don't get jelous over that it's nothing
2006-09-11 10:23:36 · answer #10 · answered by erin♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋