I am getting married in 2 weeks me and my wife to be are both virgin I need some tips for the wedding night.
*Where to take go?
* Having sex for the first time?
* How to make it romantic for her?
Help Please
2006-09-11 10:16:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
EW indeed. You must have picked that username for a reason.
Are you trying to get off by having women answer this?
How about discussing your "performance problems" with your to-be wife?
2006-09-11 10:40:46 · answer #1 · answered by Laura 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my husband and I were married last month and we were also both virgins. we had been looking forward to our wedding for a long time. my advice is don't focus too much on the after. enjoy your wedding and all the family and friends around you. i can honestly say my wedding day was the happiest most amazing day of my life. as for the after, others already mentioned great ideas: candles are great, soft music, champagne, rose petals on the bed, go really slow and enjoy every moment...no need to rush...our first night was really nice and it only gets better. congratulations and best of luck!!!
2006-09-11 18:49:23 · answer #2 · answered by bambola 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand the first question.
Go slow, lots of foreplay, make sure she is very relaxed before you penetrate her, lots of cuddling.
Light candles, they are great for setting the ambiance, give her a foot massage-after standing on her feet in heels all day she will probably love it; take a shower together and wash each other- it is very erotic and can be romantic if you, like, help her wash her hair.
2006-09-11 17:23:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and go eith the mood i bet both of you are really nervous, but relax and enjoy you both will have a great time dont worry. You can make it romantic by putting rose petals on the bed and have dim lights. CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-11 21:06:57 · answer #4 · answered by Happy Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time, don't expect skyrockets and fireworks the first time, and don't try to imitate the gymnasts in any porn movies you might have seen.
But if you practice a lot, you'll get to the skyrockets soon...
2006-09-11 17:20:32 · answer #5 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it is going to suck for a while...neither one of you know what you like or what the other one likes...and neither one of you know what you are doing...but as long as you know how to put it in and your not expecting to much the first time it will be ok...if you want some real tips that I don't want to put here im me...Nothing pervie ment..
2006-09-11 22:45:29 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
congrats! i like that you guys saved it for marriage. i think you should go to Paris or something. I never had sex before so I'm not sure but its ok because you guys are both virgins and both of y'all are experiencing things you guys never done before so don't worry about it. And buy her stuff she likes or enjoys. Trust me she will love it. BEST OF LUCK! AND CONGRADULATIONS
2006-09-11 17:21:28 · answer #7 · answered by ♥la chica♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
send her over to my house i would luv to help....
2006-09-11 17:19:18 · answer #8 · answered by ralph 123 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
youre question makes no sence...
2006-09-11 17:20:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋