Its been 4 years since our Divorce. I have not been out yet.
2006-09-11 10:13:09 · 11 answers · asked by Susan M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You answered your own question!!! you have to get out.
2006-09-11 10:15:02 · answer #1 · answered by thesweetestthings24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to examine the feelings you still have for him and the circumstances of your breakups. If you want to discuss this further (I would be very happy to help you) contact me.
All I can tell you based on the information you've provided is that you have to force yourself to take the plunge. It may feel wrong, but you have to do it anyway. You have to make yourself take a risk you promised you will never take again.
There is a guy out there waiting for you, wondering why you haven't shown up for so long. He's probably worried that he'll never find the woman of his dreams. You have to go out there and meet him.
Good luck.
2006-09-11 18:06:11 · answer #2 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Susan, you need and go meet you people, life does not end because of a divorce. Join a dating service, single club, but don't let man get you down. Life is to short for that, good luck. Hit me up babe, we could talk.
2006-09-11 17:25:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FOUR YEARS????? Wow................you must be ready to explode!!!!!
How about friends of your friends??? Youu are not the only divorced person on earth, you know!!! Get your @ss out there and start meeting people. Parks, libraries, the supermarket, etc, are all places where people congregate!! They aint conna come looking for you!!!!!
Good luck!
Mr Happy
:o)
2006-09-11 17:22:38 · answer #4 · answered by hagtagg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your just sit back and do it!!! You have to get over him. Don't be going around bothering him and his girlfriend/girlfriends. Leave him alone. It sounds like your a little obsessed. You might want to seek some counceling. I know this must be hard for you but you have a life to live of your own. Get our there and live it.
2006-09-11 17:16:43 · answer #5 · answered by stephanierudder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the key is to get out there, start going out with friends on a friday night, meet someone, and your mind will be off of him in no time...When you stay at home and dwell on the past thats when it hurts,,,4years is a long time, its obviousley not going to hapen between you gus, Please move on, this cant be healthy for you, healthwise or mentally,,,,
Call a friend and go out to eat tonight!
GOOD LUCK !
2006-09-11 17:16:05 · answer #6 · answered by crystald 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, that's the best advice I can give you. It's hard I know, but you have to for your own self respect. Good luck!
2006-09-11 17:16:18 · answer #7 · answered by waggy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out, have fun, meet new people. If you find someone else who is better than he was or at least more fun, you'll get over him.
2006-09-11 17:17:46 · answer #8 · answered by The Mosh Pit Queen: Hoser 4 Life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's hard i know from my last relationship. you should get out there when you feel your ready to date again. it takes time to move on from someone you loved but it well get better.
2006-09-11 17:18:19 · answer #9 · answered by vickie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else. Make your X jealous.
2006-09-11 17:14:56 · answer #10 · answered by Homer J. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋