Why is it ok for the ladies to suggest it, but we become the insensitive perverted boyfriend when we suggest it?
2006-09-11 10:08:29 · 15 answers · asked by nycrunner69 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most women prefer not to sexually share their man. It's just the way we are built.
However, most men fantasize about having multiple partners ... it's just the way you're built.
So if you, as a male, are fortunate enough to have women open to the experience of another women join in consider yourself one-in-a-million lucky.
2006-09-11 10:13:11 · answer #1 · answered by cdnponygirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because when guy's ask for another one it threatens women. Makes us feel like we aren't enough for the guy anymore. So its natural to just say its disgusting and insensitive, instead of voicing our insecurities. But when the woman ask for the woman we are trying to show you that we are cool and confident and can handle if there is another woman in our territory. Though in no way is she less insecure. But she is trying to be cool enough for her guy to enjoy the experience.
2006-09-11 10:31:45 · answer #2 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because the women who do suggest it are very secure in themselves and may even be into women, whereas other women who are already insecure feel if a man wants to bring in another woman then she must not be enough for her man.
2006-09-11 10:11:50 · answer #3 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's ok for me to ask since I'm bisexual ... going into a relationship with me .. you'll know from the very beginning I like to be with both men and women sexually ... !
I would never date a woman or want to be in a relationship with one .. but I know deep down in my heart I will never be fully satisfied by one man alone ... the desire for another woman sexually will always be there ... !
It's your decision if you can handle that or not ... !
2006-09-11 10:25:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same reason a woman would never bring up having a threesome with a guy because that would make her slutty.
Almost every man wants a threesome with another woman.
But not every woman does.
2006-09-11 10:15:42 · answer #5 · answered by oh really 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the girl and your level of security in the relationship, some girls are just not into it and others just do it to please their boyfriends and others really dig it, anyways bringing a 3rd party into a serious relationship is just asking for trouble unless you are both really into it.
2006-09-11 10:14:26 · answer #6 · answered by misty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who says it's oK? It's not "OK" with me!! My husband and I have an incredible sex life - and there are only 2 of us!! How will you be happy with what you think you want if you can't be happy with what you already have?
2006-09-11 10:14:22 · answer #7 · answered by Forever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a hint. Get me REALLY turned on, then you can suggest most anything & I'll agree. I will try almost anything-at least once (or twice...).
2006-09-11 10:11:06 · answer #8 · answered by laneydoll 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if your other half pressured you to let another man in bed with you? Its the pressure thing.
2006-09-11 10:10:44 · answer #9 · answered by Becky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do it no matter who asked, but my gut says if a girl asks to bring in another girl, she's feeling that she's doing it for her, but it's more for her guy for his fantasy, if a guy asks, she's likely to think it's because she's not enough for him, so he wants someone else to please him.
That's what I'd think.
2006-09-11 12:44:13 · answer #10 · answered by Angeleyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋